WAMT....what annoyed me today!

We're quite lucky here in that the repairs are a drop in "clinic". It can be a bit of a wait to be seen but I pick up a magazine in WHSmith to spend the time doing something! Murphy's law means that I then get seen quickly...
 
Yodel - Parcel stuck at Hayes since Sunday and delivery estimated at next Sunday to Wednesday???? It's basically an envelope with a guitar pickguard inside. Royal mail would have been quicker! I'm suspecting that "Hayes" is a receiving depot in China and that the "London" based Ebay seller is dodging VAT! :rolleyes: :headbang:
 
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Yodel - Parcel stuck at Hayes since Sunday and delivery estimated at next Sunday to Wednesday???? It's basically an envelope with a guitar pickguard inside. Royal mail would have been quicker! I'm suspecting that "Hayes" is a receiving depot in China and that the "London" based Ebay seller is dodging VAT! :rolleyes: :headbang:

I've had that a few times...Ebay advert stating UK seller and UK stock.... and the stuff gets sent from China... :headbang: :headbang: :headbang:
 
...and every day, is the utter stupidity of bank IT departments when it comes to security.

They swing from laissez faire attitudes to imposing security procedures that MI5 might find excessive, The net result is that even the computer literate are unable to perform simple transfers. This seems to be because the people who design the systems, fail to understand that different people have different ways of using their systems. It has reached the ridiculous when a credit card company won't accept a payment against the card from a bank account, for reasons that are totally opaque to the user. :thinking:
 
I've had that a few times...Ebay advert stating UK seller and UK stock.... and the stuff gets sent from China... :headbang: :headbang: :headbang:
I always scroll down the listing to look for for seeker/listing details, today a product marked as being in the UK has a Chinese company as origin, who’s knows where/when it’ll arrive from, so I just kept looking.
 
I always scroll down the listing to look for for seeker/listing details, today a product marked as being in the UK has a Chinese company as origin, who’s knows where/when it’ll arrive from, so I just kept looking.
I've had some where it listed a London address, said UK stock but then it came from China....
 
Most (all?)) ebay listings give an expected delivery date, if it’s more than a few days then probably from abroad
 
That has caught me out before as well ordering from eBay , I just checked the seller was listed as UK then realised afterwards that it was actually coming from china wasn’t an expensive item but was still annoying
Is misleading to be honest
 
More NHS grumbles. I had a PSA test done at the beginning of the year. The test result came back slightly higher than average so I was sent for an MRI to check nothing suspicious was going on. This came back with no problems showing, but the consultant asked for a repeat test later in the year just to make sure.

Roll on 6 months, I get another PSA test done and a few weeks later I’m invited by letter to a “virtual appointment” with the consultant. No indication of time, just a day. It turns out we’re away on holiday that day so I ring the dedicated number for the Urology department on the letter, but nobody answers so I end up being diverted and talking to the general receptionist at outpatients. I explain I can’t make the virtual appointment and she says no problems, I’ll message Urology and ask them to rearrange it.

I get a new appointment letter sent out with a revised date. I wait in all that day but nobody contacts me. I ring Urology the next day and again there’s nobody answering the phone so I end up back with outpatient reception. They advise me to email the consultant but they quickly check my records and tell me it looks like I’ve been discharged?

I email the consultant. A week or so later I get a snotty email response from his secretary. A “virtual appointment” is just a case review where the consultant sits down to look at his notes… I don’t need to be there and there IS never a phone call. :oops: :$ I will get a letter eventually but there’s currently a five week backlog for letter writing. She’s not able to tell me the result of the review, I’ll have to wait for the letter.

So…. why advise me of this virtual appointment if really I had no need to know? Why was it even rearranged if I didn’t need to be around or consulted on the day? And why doesn’t outpatient reception know this? I still haven’t had the letter either, so I checked with my GP: everything’s fine, nothing to worry about, you’ve been discharged.

What a shambles.
 
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Having been on the user end of a highly complex hospital information system for a few years now it's probably as simple as a check box saying "send appointment letter" or "don't send appointment letter" associated with scheduling the consultants workload.

David
 
I've had some where it listed a London address, said UK stock but then it came from China....
If you go a google maps search for the UK address you usually find it is a small office or even house...that tells you straight away it is coming form China.
 
More NHS grumbles. I had a PSA test done at the beginning of the year. The test result came back slightly higher than average so I was sent for an MRI to check nothing suspicious was going on. This came back with no problems showing, but the consultant asked for a repeat test later in the year just to make sure.

Roll on 6 months, I get another PSA test done and a few weeks later I’m invited by letter to a “virtual appointment” with the consultant. No indication of time, just a day. It turns out we’re away on holiday that day so I ring the dedicated number for the Urology department on the letter, but nobody answers so I end up being diverted and talking to the general receptionist at outpatients. I explain I can’t make the virtual appointment and she says no problems, I’ll message Urology and ask them to rearrange it.

I get a new appointment letter sent out with a revised date. I wait in all that day but nobody contacts me. I ring Urology the next day and again there’s nobody answering the phone so I end up back with outpatient reception. They advise me to email the consultant but they quickly check my records and tell me it looks like I’ve been discharged?

I email the consultant. A week or so later I get a snotty email response from his secretary. A “virtual appointment” is just a case review where the consultant sits down to look at his notes… I don’t need to be there and there IS never a phone call. :oops: :$ I will get a letter eventually but there’s currently a five week backlog for letter writing. She’s not able to tell me the result of the review, I’ll have to wait for the letter.

So…. why advise me of this virtual appointment if really I had no need to know? Why was it even rearranged if I didn’t need to be around or consulted on the day? And why doesn’t outpatient reception know this? I still haven’t had the letter either, so I checked with my GP: everything’s fine, nothing to worry about, you’ve been discharged.

What a shambles.
I think I have been very lucky regarding the NHS, especially since moving to Wiltshire. I have stage 4 kidney disease, and will need a transplant at some point. That said, I have an appointment with the Kidney consultant every 3 months, sometimes in person, sometimes by phone. Because I will eventually need major surgery, I've already been in with a cardiac specialist to make sure I can take the stress of the operation, and they have run several tests to make sure. I have the green light for the op, but my kidney performance has actually gone up in recent months, probably due to diet and the amount of water my wife makes me drink.

My local hospital is Salisbury, but my kidney work comes under Portsmouth as they are renal specialists. I guess I got lucky when I moved away from crappy West London....
 
Selfish, stupid and rude...

A prat follows a recycling lorry into a narrow village road and then spews invective because the crew are doing their job. Perhaps his neighbours should dump this load in front of his door, to give him a clue about politeness...

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I've just had my home insurance renewal. £396 a 30% increase which seems the norm. As usual I'm getting quotes from other companies before contacting the company for a discount. I got £40 off last year after a phone call. More Than no longer trade. I was unable to input my date of birth into the RBS website .I called them and coudn't get any further with the automated voice because I had no account number to input and I was unable to enter the value of the house on Moneysupermarket comparison site because the drop down with months on it wouldn't work. I was able to get the cost of rebuild from ABI after signing up and being sent a password to my Email account. It would be easier to just pay the renewal premium.

Will try again tomorrow. Any recommendations appreciated.
 
Parcel delivered and the chap then walks across the front lawn to his van. We're an open-plan front.
 
Most (all?)) ebay listings give an expected delivery date, if it’s more than a few days then probably from abroad
I needed a new remote for my garage door, googled the part number on it and got of options at £25-£35, scrolled along and found one on aliexpress at 99p+tax! So take a chance and off went the order, 5 days later it turned up, £1.02 inc tax, it even included batteries, tremendous value and around the time I’ve had UK deliveries, that’ll be my win for the year.
 
Had 5 doors delivered yesterday. Was told I would get a phone call before delivery.

Delivery guy turns up unannounced 5 minutes before I was due to go out to collect some drywall. Driver hops out the truck and says I need a forklift because they packed the truck in such a way that he can't get his pallet truck in.

Am I the only one without a forklift in my shed?
 
I put a shelf unit up yesterday. It has three shelves and is about 3x taller than it is wide. It didn't have any mounting holes so I drilled two at the top and one centrally at the bottom. I held it in place to set the height and then with a spirit level on one of the shelves I marked the top holes, drilled and inserted rawlplugs, mounted the unit and marked the bottom hole, removed the unit, drilled the bottom hole and inserted the plug and then mounted the unit with all three screws. Job done.

I then stepped back and it didn't look level. I checked with the spirt level both on all the shelves and vertically against both sides and it is level and straight but when I stand back it looks to be tilted ever so slightly. Step right up to it and it does look straight. So, the room is making it look wonky when I step back and when I eliminate the rooms influence on me by standing right in front of the shelves it looks straight.

I do know from my days as a tradesman that when installing something you have two choices, do it straight or do it to look straight in its environment. It is straight but when I look at it it bugs me that it doesn't look straight when I stand back. Making it look straight will in reality make it wonky and if anyone was to place a marble on a shelf it'd roll. Not that anyone would do that, except me.

Grrrr...
 
My perspective (no pun intended) is that when you are closer in you are in effect viewing it in isolation but when you step back your 'view' is in relationship to the surroundings. It is those surroundings that may have 'out of true angles' (e.g. ever so slightly floor or ceiling or perhaps other furnishings that are present) and is what makes the shelf unit look odd.

Like you, when I see something like that it too offends my eye (so to speak).

I wonder, will it look as 'off' once you have put your books & ornaments on it.....as they will also affect the perspective?

PS This question of "what looks right" or perhaps more pleasing also applies to mounted & framed pictures. I always use cut mounts that are fully centered but you do see mounts used that are offset with the bottom being wider than the top 'border'.
 
I've already populated the shelves. Mrs WW can rearrange things when she gets home but I just wanted to give her a start.

I've been aware of this all my working life and beyond but that doesn't stop it annoying me. I know that Mrs WW will never ever notice or comment, I know that, but I also know it'll annoy me every single time I enter the room and I know it'll annoy me every single time I enter the room as I know I'll have to look at it every single time I enter the room. I'll just have to look :D

I put three pictures up in the front room measuring down from the ceiling rather than mounting them level and they look ok. The only annoying thing was that the mountings on the back aren't in exactly the same place, they vary slightly from picture from to picture frame by up to 8mm so each one had to be measured and mounted accordingly. I assume these things are made in a factory so why not get it right? A jig would take seconds to make. Grrrr.

Mrs WW says I'm the only person who cares about these things and no one else in the world would notice or care about the things I obsess over but I know I'm not the only one :D
 
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Another annoyance.

When I went to renew my AA breakdown cover a few weeks back they upped the cost by over £100 for no reason that I could see and for no reason that the lady on the phone could tell me. No problem, I just went back to the RAC who I'd left when they inexplicably put their charge up by £100. Shopping around usually gets the cost down to what it was last year and that's exactly what happened this year. The RAC gave me a better price as a new customer than the AA gave me as an existing customer and in fact the RAC gave me a cheaper price this year than they quoted me when I left them last time. Such is life. It's just annoying that companies tend to want to fleece existing customers hoping they wont notice and just auto renew whilst new customers get a discount.

What's annoyed me today is that since I told the AA I wouldn't be renewing they've bombarded me with emails and letters, got another letter today, when all they had to do if they wanted to keep me as a customer was not put the cost up £100.
 
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I've already populated the shelves. Mrs WW can rearrange things when she gets home but I just wanted to give her a start.

I've been aware of this all my working life and beyond but that doesn't stop it annoying me. I know that Mrs WW will never ever notice or comment, I know that, but I also know it'll annoy me every single time I enter the room and I know it'll annoy me every single time I enter the room as I know I'll have to look at it every single time I enter the room. I'll just have to look :D

I put three pictures up in the front room measuring down from the ceiling rather than mounting them level and they look ok. The only annoying thing was that the mountings on the back aren't in exactly the same place, they vary slightly from picture from to picture frame by up to 8mm so each one had to be measured and mounted accordingly. I assume these things are made in a factory so why not get it right? A jig would take seconds to make. Grrrr.

Mrs WW says I'm the only person who cares about these things and no one else in the world would notice or care about the things I obsess over but I know I'm not the only one :D
Rest assured you are not the only one.......I have been told it falls into the spectrum(?) of OCD:lol:
 
Rest assured you are not the only one.......I have been told it falls into the spectrum(?) of OCD:LOL:

I've accepted that if I was a youngster today I'd be on a spectrum or three but at least my little quirks have suited the jobs I did. Computers, quality management, health and safety and product approvals all suited me very well and paid for my early retirement. The only real negatives in life and in contact with other people are the sensitivity to noise and other stimulants, the counting and doing repetitive things when they really aren't necessary (er... Stop it. The door is locked and you know it is. It doesn't need locking again) trouble recognising faces and Mrs WW telling me I'm an alien.

Glad I'm not the only one on this forum :D
 
I've accepted that if I was a youngster today I'd be on a spectrum or three but at least my little quirks have suited the jobs I did. Computers, quality management, health and safety and product approvals all suited me very well and paid for my early retirement. The only real negatives in life and in contact with other people are the sensitivity to noise and other stimulants, the counting and doing repetitive things when they really aren't necessary (er... Stop it. The door is locked and you know it is. It doesn't need locking again) trouble recognising faces and Mrs WW telling me I'm an alien.

Glad I'm not the only one on this forum :D
:headbang::headbang::headbang::headbang::headbang::headbang::police:
 
Another annoyance.

When I went to renew my AA breakdown cover a few weeks back they upped the cost by over £100 for no reason that I could see and for no reason that the lady on the phone could tell me. No problem, I just went back to the RAC who I'd left when they inexplicably put their charge up by £100. Shopping around usually gets the cost down to what it was last year and that's exactly what happened this year. The RAC gave me a better price as a new customer than the AA gave me as an existing customer and in fact the RAC gave me a cheaper price this year than they quoted me when I left them last time. Such is life. It's just annoying that companies tend to want to fleece existing customers hoping they wont notice and just auto renew whilst new customers get a discount.

What's annoyed me today is that since I told the AA I wouldn't be renewing they've bombarded me with emails and letters, got another letter today, when all they had to do if they wanted to keep me as a customer was not put the cost up £100.


Having spent most of my life in sales, I know that keeping customers is easier and less expensive than finding new ones. I just can't work out what these companies hope to achieve, unless they just rely on you to be lazy and renew anyway.
 
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Having spent most of my life in sales, I know that keeping customers is easier and less expensive than finding new ones. I just can't work out what these companies hope to achieve, unless they just rely on you to be lazy and renew anyway.

Years ago someone did a presentation and management agreed fleecing existing customers at renewal time was the way to go.
 
I put things up to look right, sod being level-unless things fall off-eventually curiosity means the spirit level comes out to check,
 
I've already populated the shelves. Mrs WW can rearrange things when she gets home but I just wanted to give her a start.

I've been aware of this all my working life and beyond but that doesn't stop it annoying me. I know that Mrs WW will never ever notice or comment, I know that, but I also know it'll annoy me every single time I enter the room and I know it'll annoy me every single time I enter the room as I know I'll have to look at it every single time I enter the room. I'll just have to look :D

I put three pictures up in the front room measuring down from the ceiling rather than mounting them level and they look ok. The only annoying thing was that the mountings on the back aren't in exactly the same place, they vary slightly from picture from to picture frame by up to 8mm so each one had to be measured and mounted accordingly. I assume these things are made in a factory so why not get it right? A jig would take seconds to make. Grrrr.

Mrs WW says I'm the only person who cares about these things and no one else in the world would notice or care about the things I obsess over but I know I'm not the only one :D

My bold.

Mrs. WW is wrong about this. Many people do care about 'things' being right and,imo, rightly so. As mentioned before .."it'll do.." isn't the mindset of someone, tradesman/women or not, who wants to do things properly .If your shelving isn't straight to look at then it has to be righted. The chap who has always done our wallpapering tells me that has to offer the ends up to the ceiling and skirting board to make it sit correctly because the walls are out. It's not obsession and not to do so, whatever the situation, is sloppiness.

As I've mentioned before on here , not in this discussion, as Box Brownie says, people are quick to shout OCD when it really isn't. Having things in order..visibly, is all about symmetry.There is a condition called "Symmetry OCD."

Here's a copy/paste re that. My bold.

"People with symmetry OCD often have a lot of anxiety and stress over their condition. They can be so deeply bothered about a certain symmetry obsession that they might spend exorbitant amounts of time trying to cope. They can feel helpless and like they have no choice but to give in to their urges"

In fairness I must also include the next paragraph

"Some others, however, might feel that their desire for order and symmetry is completely reasonable and appropriate. This subtype is a more easily recognizable OCD diagnosis compared to other variations of OCD" . I see the author is still maintaining it's OCD, though.

If I go into someone's house and a painting or framed photo on the wall isn't level I do feel the urge to straighten it..maybe I'd ask to straighten it ..with a grin. What doesn't happen is getting stressed or anxious about it... and there's the difference. You mentioned the front door. ..ie double-checking that it's locked when you go out. That, as far as I know is quite normal. You want to ensure your home is secure. If we're rushing to get off on holiday..to get on the way to beat traffic, ie into the SW..Cornwall/ Devon or to Birmingham airport, then my wife will get in the car and say... "I better check I've locked the front door" I just say, ok..or I'll mosey on back to the door to check. No problem. The problem comes when you do that, walk away ..maybe out walking along the road rather than get in the car and return..several times.

Think about this. Anyone who has experience of the armed forces will know what a monster ..lol...the RSM and his equivalents in the RN and RAF are. The man who inspects your made-up bed, inspects your room, your kit, your shiny boots, your uniform.. especially the crease in your trousers and how, generally, you are turned out. Are they instilling OCD ? I don't think so. It's all about standards.

I think you can carry on with your orderly life without any worries. When prejudices are a conversation I say this. Yes, I am prejudiced .I don't care what colour,sexual orientation or life-style my neighbours have but I do care that they keep their front, especially, clean and tidy and a clean car.
 
My bold.

Mrs. WW is wrong about this. Many people do care about 'things' being right and,imo, rightly so. As mentioned before .."it'll do.." isn't the mindset of someone, tradesman/women or not, who wants to do things properly .If your shelving isn't straight to look at then it has to be righted. The chap who has always done our wallpapering tells me that has to offer the ends up to the ceiling and skirting board to make it sit correctly because the walls are out. It's not obsession and not to do so, whatever the situation, is sloppiness.

As I've mentioned before on here , not in this discussion, as Box Brownie says, people are quick to shout OCD when it really isn't. Having things in order..visibly, is all about symmetry.There is a condition called "Symmetry OCD."

Here's a copy/paste re that. My bold.

"People with symmetry OCD often have a lot of anxiety and stress over their condition. They can be so deeply bothered about a certain symmetry obsession that they might spend exorbitant amounts of time trying to cope. They can feel helpless and like they have no choice but to give in to their urges"

In fairness I must also include the next paragraph

"Some others, however, might feel that their desire for order and symmetry is completely reasonable and appropriate. This subtype is a more easily recognizable OCD diagnosis compared to other variations of OCD" . I see the author is still maintaining it's OCD, though.

If I go into someone's house and a painting or framed photo on the wall isn't level I do feel the urge to straighten it..maybe I'd ask to straighten it ..with a grin. What doesn't happen is getting stressed or anxious about it... and there's the difference. You mentioned the front door. ..ie double-checking that it's locked when you go out. That, as far as I know is quite normal. You want to ensure your home is secure. If we're rushing to get off on holiday..to get on the way to beat traffic, ie into the SW..Cornwall/ Devon or to Birmingham airport, then my wife will get in the car and say... "I better check I've locked the front door" I just say, ok..or I'll mosey on back to the door to check. No problem. The problem comes when you do that, walk away ..maybe out walking along the road rather than get in the car and return..several times.

Think about this. Anyone who has experience of the armed forces will know what a monster ..lol...the RSM and his equivalents in the RN and RAF are. The man who inspects your made-up bed, inspects your room, your kit, your shiny boots, your uniform.. especially the crease in your trousers and how, generally, you are turned out. Are they instilling OCD ? I don't think so. It's all about standards.

I think you can carry on with your orderly life without any worries. When prejudices are a conversation I say this. Yes, I am prejudiced .I don't care what colour,sexual orientation or life-style my neighbours have but I do care that they keep their front, especially, clean and tidy and a clean car.
We all(?) have our foibles but as the article you quote infers, is where 'they' lead to anxiety and other manifestations that possibly some attention needs to be paid to them :thinking:

Further in regard to things needing to "look right"....
Back in the 60's (I think mid to late?) one of neighbours was the first (that we knew of) to buy a colour TV......as was the way back then they showed it off (though that may have the mindset of those folks) and I was struck by the fact that the whites had a very distinct green hue.

When I mentioned this to my dad afterwards saying 'perhaps they should get it adjusted....'? Suffice to say when my dad eventually got us a colour TV we made sure to look at examples in the shop and not get the Phillips brand like the neighbours, we got a Hitachi and it was superb and lasted a good many years. When it needed replacing my dad bought the same brand.

PS I was always from an early age 'into the details'.
 
If your shelving isn't straight to look at then it has to be righted.

No. Mrs WW will probably never notice or mention that the shelving doesn't look straight but if she does I'll explain about the optical illusion and the need to ignore it for practicality. There's always the spirit level to back me up.

I would never put shelving up wonky just to make it look straight. I have installed things wonky in my days as an electrician just to make things look right but there are times when I wouldn't because of practicalities or when the environment is so wonky that you just can't add to it as if you do it'll look ridiculous and that does happen. Some things don't need to be spirit level straight and can be a bit out without it being noticeable or a problem but shelves do need to be level as if they aren't they don't really work as shelves as things could roll about or fall off.

For this shelving being level matters more than how it looks as one thing that's on it is a little Buddhist shrine made up of various things some of which are stacked. Representations of Buddha have to be at a respectful height so the shelving is mounted with one shelf at eye level as Mrs WW will be standing when she looks at it and meditates. She expands the respectful height requirement to being at a respectful height within the display so her Buddhas are stacked on top of other things to get them to the respectful height within the display and stacking things could lead to instability on a wonky shelf and obviously Buddha can not be allowed to fall over.

OCD + pattern recognition. There's a combination.
 
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We all(?) have our foibles but as the article you quote infers, is where 'they' lead to anxiety and other manifestations that possibly some attention needs to be paid to them :thinking:

Further in regard to things needing to "look right"....
Back in the 60's (I think mid to late?) one of neighbours was the first (that we knew of) to buy a colour TV......as was the way back then they showed it off (though that may have the mindset of those folks) and I was struck by the fact that the whites had a very distinct green hue.

When I mentioned this to my dad afterwards saying 'perhaps they should get it adjusted....'? Suffice to say when my dad eventually got us a colour TV we made sure to look at examples in the shop and not get the Phillips brand like the neighbours, we got a Hitachi and it was superb and lasted a good many years. When it needed replacing my dad bought the same brand.

PS I was always from an early age 'into the details'.

TV wise one thing that gets me is when people are watching TV in the wrong mode. How can they do that and not notice people on screen are too short and fat? How can they not care? I believe that there are possibly different levels of consciousness as if there aren't how can people not notice and care? :D

My OCD does get noticed and some people play along and that's fine and if it's ever malicious they're not going to be friends so it's probably not going to be a problem. There are times when it gets a bit... tiring, but many things can be plus points if you don't get too upset about them and I try not to. Facial recognition is a bigger problem but there are things you can do such as getting people to talk. For eg...

Me "Hi, how are you?"
Person "Fine. How are you?"
Me (I know who you are now) "OK, Peter."
 
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RE: recognising faces/people
Not so much a problem more an embarrassment.......
When I was working for a couple of companies that did 3 to 4 exhibitions per year it was always a case of inviting ones customers and in the main I would recognise them as they approached. NB the customer base could be anywhere to 1500 - 3500 companies overall and in my area around 250 - 300 and sometimes seeing up to 8 per day.....it could at times be a bit of blur so contextual referencing was important.

However, in the job I was in between 1980 to I think 1986 I was selling into the laboratory services e.g. NHS labs and water companies & universities. Now, all such contacts the they wore lab coats (typically white) and other gear. So my brain associated the coats and the context of the environment with the person (pattern recognition :thinking: ) and the number of times I did not recognise them was awkward but I learned quickly that it was better to say up front that I needed a reminder than to leave it until the end or not all :headbang:
 
My parcel finally arrived and contained a flimsy piece of sticky backed polythene that was supposed to be a rigid, edge bevelled pickguard that was supposed to be .2 cm thick (2mm). It wasn't even 1mm. I asked for a refund and was offered £2 to keep it!
Yeah right! Noooooo! Wrong! Send me a full refund and a postage label please, in accordance with the terms and conditions!
:ROFLMAO:
 
RE: recognising faces/people
Not so much a problem more an embarrassment.......
When I was working for a couple of companies that did 3 to 4 exhibitions per year it was always a case of inviting ones customers and in the main I would recognise them as they approached. NB the customer base could be anywhere to 1500 - 3500 companies overall and in my area around 250 - 300 and sometimes seeing up to 8 per day.....it could at times be a bit of blur so contextual referencing was important.

However, in the job I was in between 1980 to I think 1986 I was selling into the laboratory services e.g. NHS labs and water companies & universities. Now, all such contacts the they wore lab coats (typically white) and other gear. So my brain associated the coats and the context of the environment with the person (pattern recognition :thinking: ) and the number of times I did not recognise them was awkward but I learned quickly that it was better to say up front that I needed a reminder than to leave it until the end or not all :headbang:
Put on an Aussie accent and call everyone Mate :)
 
No. Mrs WW will probably never notice or mention that the shelving doesn't look straight but if she does I'll explain about the optical illusion and the need to ignore it for practicality. There's always the spirit level to back me up.

I would never put shelving up wonky just to make it look straight. I have installed things wonky in my days as an electrician just to make things look right but there are times when I wouldn't because of practicalities or when the environment is so wonky that you just can't add to it as if you do it'll look ridiculous and that does happen. Some things don't need to be spirit level straight and can be a bit out without it being noticeable or a problem but shelves do need to be level as if they aren't they don't really work as shelves as things could roll about or fall off.

For this shelving being level matters more than how it looks as one thing that's on it is a little Buddhist shrine made up of various things some of which are stacked. Representations of Buddha have to be at a respectful height so the shelving is mounted with one shelf at eye level as Mrs WW will be standing when she looks at it and meditates. She expands the respectful height requirement to being at a respectful height within the display so her Buddhas are stacked on top of other things to get them to the respectful height within the display and stacking things could lead to instability on a wonky shelf and obviously Buddha can not be allowed to fall over.

OCD + pattern recognition. There's a combination.
Actually,Alan.. my contribution was more on the wider issue of perceived OCD versus perfection, if you like, and a desire to have things 'just so' rather than the minutiae involved in getting a shelf to look straight and,in this case, at the correct level for your wife. I don't agree with your last comment for reasons that I set out in my original response to you.
 
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