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i doubt you'll find any (sensible) dog owner disputing any of that. if a dog cannot be recalled then keep it on a lead. at the same time children also need to be taught not to bound up to a dog without knowing how it will react.I am concerned about any dog I can't throw like an American football when they are near my children. Everyone has rights and I think a number of dog owners who are around dogs all the time simply do not understand how a dog running towards you or your child makes you feel. You have a right to walk your dog, but everyone has a right not to be scared.
They make me feel that I must be next to my daughter at a park and not let her explore on her own.
You will all come back and say they are as soft as pillows etc. etc. etc. etc. but when one of my daughters get spooked and gets upset when a "harmless dog" comes up to her, how is it harmless if it has given her that reaction? That is like saying there is no harm in emotional bullying as there is no physical contact and no anger. What about when on 1 or 2 occasions when I have been a little further from my daughter and she has been so spooked that she has run to me causing the dog to chase and jump up etc.
Whenever I see someone ask a dog owner to keep their dog under control, they are always met with abuse. This is not just the stereotypical vest, can of lager and bulldog brigade but middle aged women in those green waxy country jackets, families with dogs etc. There have been quite a few incidents in our local park that we have a dog warden who patrols the park.
I went down to Sandbanks, Poole and we were sitting on the beach having a picnic in the no dog zone and 3 dogs came up to try and take our lunch resulting in owners having to run across the beach. There were also some large huskies running around off the lead and when someone reminded the owner the dogs should be on a lead, they were met with a mouthful of abuse from both the mum and dad of the family.
On the flipside my girls have stroked some lovely dogs, but these are generally yorkshire terrier size.
My daughters know to ask us and the owner before going towards a dog and always do. They also know to stand still when a dog is near them and we have to work hard to ensure they remember. Yet they still get spooked by larger dogs (any breed).
Why does someone else having a dog have such an effect on my family?
Agreed, its a two way street.at the same time children also need to be taught not to bound up to a dog without knowing how it will react.
Why does someone else having a dog have such an effect on my family?

Now please don't jump on me, as I am only putting across my opinion.
I could equally say " why does someone else having children have such an effect on my life"?
We have neighbours around the corner whose garden backs onto the side of ours.
Their boys (around 9 and 7) are constantly kicking footballs against the fence....climbing on the garage roof (theirs, but overlooks my garden).
They tear-arse around the cul-de-sac on anything with wheels, yelling and screaming, and their language would put a docker to shame.
Say anything to them in earshot of the parents and you'll get nothing but abuse and complete rot about "letting them be children"
And are they to be feared? Well yes, by some of the more elderly residence of our small street, they are.
So perhaps a little control of these beasts is in order too![]()
Why does someone else having a dog have such an effect on my family?
Ah the "It's what kids do" defence. This often also applies to stealing cars, shoplifting and many other yob related enterprises.

That depends on whether I win or lose the argument TBHat least the thread hasn't been closed yet![]()
That depends on whether I win or lose the argument TBH
(What were we talking about again? )
Section 16b of the dangerous snakes act
If you ask nicely, I'll see what I can do Heatherwatch it or we might see a re-emergence of the throbbing pink mamba.......
watch it or we might see a re-emergence of the throbbing pink mamba.......

If you ask nicely, I'll see what I can do Heather
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Thats close enoughkiss my asp!
watch it or we might see a re-emergence of the throbbing pink mamba.......

Did the stats show a greater number of bites per say 1000 Labradors or just greater number of bites by that breed generally? Only the first is meaningful.
Says the girl who has her pussy in her avatar photo![]()
It will be interesting when the first case brought by a trespasser/burglar into an secure private area comes to court [which is undoubtedly will] to see how the law is interpreted by the legal system.
the BBC radio news did just say clearly that there would be "no charges if the person on your land is a trespasser".No it wont. The act is clear that it is intended to protect people who need to come into your home, so Health workers, gas meter readers (if it's inside, but obviously also applies to your garden). etc.
What it does not do, is to protect a trespasser, which is what a burglar is. The only thing he can claim, is that he was compliant and no threat, and you set the dog on him. That would make the dog owner responsible for in the same way as if you did a Tony Martin and shot him in the back. No need for force, you can't use and that includes setting the dog on him. Would that then constitute an offence under the DDA? I doubt it, the dog would then be considered to be under your control.
The one type of dog that can almost always be guaranteed to be a real problem are the ones owned by chavs. They are typically pit bull types, but whatever they happen to be, they are always as nasty as their owners.
You can never stereotype too much, can you?![]()
You can never stereotype too much, can you?
A couple of summers ago we were walking our two excitable Jack Russells into Hadley Woods when out of the woods in front of us came two hoodied chav teens - the two guys were even different ethnicities to add to the stereotype - with a Rottweiler and a German Shepherd running free! Status dogs obviously and bound to be big trouble for our little pair! ... Until the two hoodied chavs called their status dogs to heel and showed perfect control and smiled and said hello as we all passed!
At least two of Bratney's male friends have huge Mastiffs of one sort or another, both of whom lavish huge care and attention on their brilliantly well-behaved softy dogs rather than on their chavvy, scruffy old cars!
In fact the only friend I know with recent real dog trouble is the glamourous wife of a £200K + per annum corporate solicitor who horribly had to have their greyhound put down after it attacked one of her sons' playmates from their Prep School.
You can never stereotype too much, can you![]()
all dogs have four legs my cat has four legs. therefore my cat is a dog..
Abbie Maine Coon by Yves Geza, on Flickrall dogs have four legs my cat has four legs. therefore my cat is a dog
I have to admit, I've had as nasty injury from a car as I have a dog.