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:help: so a couple of days ago on Facebook my eldest (most of you know he is an idiot) decided to advertise a party. it was up just a few Mins when i spotted it and well it was removed. i now find out he has about 215 people invited to a small student flat.:bat: :rules::bonk: we all know how this is going to end, but this time the bank of mum and dad is shut!!! ruddy KIDS!!!!!!!!
 
lol dave what me moaning or the son playing up????
 
Yes well he has been told now i have had it with the idiot.
 
As long as its not in your house then leave him to learn his lessons, but like you said, bank of mum & dad should be closed

Suddenly, the hormonal, angry, confrontational pre-teen doesn't seem so bad
 
I blame the parents...



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Seriously though, I'm dreading this type of stuff with mine. My daughter turns sweet sixteen on Saturday and I hope she stays sensible, but who knows...:shrug:
 
Give me a pre teen over this one anytime.. he is not a bad kid just bloody stupid...
as for the bank..you have no idea.
 
Zulfi i hope and pray your daughter is like mine and not a pratt like my son.. please see Lyntons thread about children! Grrrrrrrr
 
Lynton is a new dad, he has a few years before he needs to worry.
 
neil_g said:
i may have missed something but what's the problem?
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We've all been invited to a party, "the problem" is Terri's being tight, so we've got to take our own booze.:lol:
 
Yup, close the bank and thank your lucky stars the party is at his student flat rather than your home, although if it was at your home, you could just lock the guests out! hopefully, all will go well and he'll have no problems but make sure he knows that any expense is down to him and that you will NOT be underwriting the costs, although you may have paid his flat deposit and may have to forfeit that. Might be an idea to make sure he has campus security's number on speed dial (if the flat's on campus) or persuade him that 999 is a valid option if he has problems.

Possibly best to keep hubby out of the loop until he gets home - he'll only worry (or laugh!). Has #1 son (he'll always be that!) got some big rugby mates to act as bouncers if necessary? Just an idea.
 
He has to feel the full consequences of his stupidity to have a chance of learning anything...
 
Nod i would have killed him had he tried to have a party here. His dad already knows. i haven't been able to talk to him but have sent a few messages telling the bloody idiot that he is responsible for any damage or thefts. there are a few rugby guys going but not sure that is a help lol. and not on campus just slap bang in the middle of town.
 
:lol: Sorry Terri, but I've got to laugh.

Looks like he's determined to go through life learning lessons the hard way.
His flat, his responsibility and as long as he's not doing anything illegal or putting himself at serious risk of injury, you've just got to let him get on with it.
We all know how it's going to end and I reckon it'll be the last time that he decides to advertise a party on FB.
 
Just remember to enjoy the 'told you so' moment with gusto. That will really tick him off :D
 
:help: though these things happened before Facebook too ;) my two sisters decided to organise a party while mum, dad and me (8yrs old at the time) were on holiday, my sisters would have been late teens as they're 10-11 years older than me ;) anyway this party resulted in one internal wall demolished, 5 internal doors off hinges, 2 broken widows and my mums car written off :eek:
 
MWHCVT said:
:help: though these things happened before Facebook too ;) my two sisters decided to organise a party while mum, dad and me (8yrs old at the time) were on holiday, my sisters would have been late teens as they're 10-11 years older than me ;) anyway this party resulted in one internal wall demolished, 5 internal doors off hinges, 2 broken widows and my mums car written off :eek:
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Now that is some party :lol:
 
MWHCVT said:
:help: though these things happened before Facebook too ;) my two sisters decided to organise a party while mum, dad and me (8yrs old at the time) were on holiday, my sisters would have been late teens as they're 10-11 years older than me ;) anyway this party resulted in one internal wall demolished, 5 internal doors off hinges, 2 broken widows and my mums car written off :eek:
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Did that story make it on to the news as I seem to remember seeing something similar a few years back?
 
MWHCVT said:
:help: though these things happened before Facebook too ;) my two sisters decided to organise a party while mum, dad and me (8yrs old at the time) were on holiday, my sisters would have been late teens as they're 10-11 years older than me ;) anyway this party resulted in one internal wall demolished, 5 internal doors off hinges, 2 broken widows and my mums car written off :eek:
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thank the lord it is not at my house then.

I try and stay away from the flat as much as i can so i doubt i will find out much about what happens unless it makes it to face book or the news.
 
Russ77 said:
Did that story make it on to the news as I seem to remember seeing something similar a few years back?
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No, never got anywhere near the news as I say well before face book this was nearly 20 years ago now, though I remember the on I think you thinking of ;)

gumbo-67 said:
thank the lord it is not at my house then.

I try and stay away from the flat as much as i can so i doubt i will find out much about what happens unless it makes it to face book or the news.
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I bet you do ;)
 
gumbo-67 said:
Yes well he has been told now i have had it with the idiot.
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I really hope that when push comes to shove, that's not true.
 
what i mean Ruth he can get himself out of the muck. as many will tell you he has be a toad one way or the other for a time (not all this sort of thing.)
 
Delta Skies said:
Now that is some party :lol:
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Reminds me, when i was 18 these two girls invited us to a party in warwickshire - its was a real blast - we pushed our freind goof through an internal wall, then we got raided by the police and loads of doors got kicked in, it was great

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erm

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Joking aside i was once at a party where one of our aquaintances (I can't say mates - he was my mate's girlfreinds brother, and a complete arse) decided he wanted to "rock climbing" - and got a bunch of 6 inch nails from somewhere and hammered them into the living room wall (it was a double height pitched roof apex affair)

We weren't aware of this at the time - As I recall I spent much of the later stage of that party getting my mate chris out of the pond - into which he'd dived to try to catch a fish, while off his face on magic mushrooms.

however it was less than ammusing when we woke up the next day and went WTF happened here - the girl who's house it was went balistic, rightly diagnosing that her dad was going to do his nut, and we got ejected from the house and spent the rest of the day sleeping in the cars parked up in some woodland picnic area , waiting to sober up enough to drive home
 
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Pete i have to say i was a good girl and never went to such parties i just hope and pray that any damage that is done is easy fixed and costs as little as possible *** i am not paying for it..
 
MWHCVT said:
:help: though these things happened before Facebook too ;) my two sisters decided to organise a party while mum, dad and me (8yrs old at the time) were on holiday, my sisters would have been late teens as they're 10-11 years older than me ;) anyway this party resulted in one internal wall demolished, 5 internal doors off hinges, 2 broken widows and my mums car written off :eek:
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I think I was at that party :thumbs:
 
gumbo-67 said:
Pete i have to say i was a good girl and never went to such parties i just hope and pray that any damage that is done is easy fixed and costs as little as possible *** i am not paying for it..
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lol - I remember another party where my mate john went upstairs and got into bed with our mate jamie's divorcee mum !

She screamed and slapped his face

Then half an hour later he went and did it again ! Being, in his bevvied up state, convinced that she was just playing hard to get. :nono:

I havent seen john in ages, but can't help but think of him and this story everytime I hear the "fountains of wayne "track "Stacey's Mom"

Then there was the party where we burned a pentacle into my mate ian's parents lawn with a can of petrol - Given that this was a masters degree party we were all old enough to know better - the giant flaming pentacle was slightly hard to explain when the police turned up.

And not forgetting the party where I decided "some bloke" was giving me the evil eye and put my fist through the patio doors trying to punch out my own reflection (I had had a lot of interesting substances I hasten to add).. for sometime after that my nick name was de niro - as in taxi driver "you looking at me, you looking at me, who else you gonna be looking at"...

The underlying point being that inviting 200+ idiots to a party and trashing your student digs is quite normal, and part of growing up - I turned out okay in the long run and i'm sure your son will too.
 
big soft moose said:
Reminds me, when i was 18 these two girls invited us to a party in warwickshire - its was a real blast - we pushed our freind goof through an internal wall, then we got raided by the police and loads of doors got kicked in, it was great

oh

erm

:exit:

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PM me your address :D my dad still have a few broken knee cap IOU's owing on that party :lol: :bat:
 
big soft moose said:
The underlying point being that inviting 200+ idiots to a party and trashing your student digs is quite normal, and part of growing up - I turned out okay in the long run and i'm sure your son will too.
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nail on the head.

i lost count of the amount of places we trashed as youngsters, as long as you man up and deal with any consequences.. let him get on with it, then point and laugh if/when it goes tits up.
 
Here's an idea, Terri...

Can't remember how far he is from home but if practical, turn up with a load of mates and crash his party!

As a yoof, I had an almost entirely unfounded reputation for being an animal at parties - not a party animal but an animal while there. My most heinous reputed action was supposedly pooping in a girl's handbag after lining it with clingfilm. I can honestly say, hands on nadgers (incidentally, that's where the word testimony comes from) that it wasn't me! (I wouldn't have used clingfilm...) I will admit to one occasion when I had overindulged to the point of puking. I made it to the bog but it was occupied (although not locked). Imagine the poor girl's reaction when this drunken greebo lout bursts through the door, pulls her legs apart and empties his stomach between them. Just one reason for my giving up not long after (No DTs when I did, thank Dionyssus!)
 
I am laughing here at all of this. And i am thinking of going and crashing it with some mates but we shall see his dad has sent him a "note".
Kids will be kids and no doubt we will be re visiting this thread again.
Daughter is having guests at home (i am staying in), just asked if people can sleep in the lounge... Errm i give up. lol
 
just as long as we all get to see the pictures of the trashed flat :lol:
 
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