Why is asking someone out so difficult? UPDATED!!!

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Why is it always so difficult. I'm happy being single but there's someone I like very much and we get on so well, but why does it just stop there. AAAAAAAAAAAAAARrrrrrrrrrrrrrgggggggggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. :bang:
 
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Alright, I will go out with you, 7 o'clock OK? Behind the bike sheds do ya?
 
i ask myself the same questions...
 
awp said:
Why don't you ask him?
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Yeah whats the worst that can happen, seriously. If he declines your advance, just accept it and move on.
Just ask him if he fancies going for a drink sometime, if he's interested he should say yes. Keep it simple and don't overload the situation.

P.S its nice to see a 21st cetury girl who is willing to ask a man out :clap:
 
Go on ask him/her out, you never know he/she could be thinking the same thing and have the same insecurities...

What's the worst that could happen, he/she says no, you end up being single (which your happy with) and you have the perfect excuse to go out for a night on the tiles with mates to perk yourself back up :D
 
at least you'll know where you stand - and it might all work out - men are insecure too sometimes.
 
Suggest going out for a meal, drink, night at the cinema, bowling etc and see how things develop. If you don't do it, you'll never know. Do you have his number? Sometimes an invitation via text (or email) is easier.
 
minimeeze said:
Suggest going out for a meal, drink, night at the cinema, bowling etc and see how things develop. If you don't do it, you'll never know. Do you have his number? Sometimes an invitation via text (or email) is easier.
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Maybe I'm old fashioned (35 going on 60) but would never accept an invite through text or email, for a party yes for a two person meet definately not...

Then again I am still single :lol:
 
TheNissanMan said:
Maybe I'm old fashioned (35 going on 60) but would never accept an invite through text or email, for a party yes for a two person meet definately not...

Then again I am still single :lol:
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Oh I'd have no problems by text or email but I dont want to do that. I've always been asked out face to face so I guess that's why this terrifys me. I've always been impressed if someone has the balls to ask me to my face.
 
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Maybe you are old fashioned Nissan man ;)
I hooked up with my partner via email! We met via the internet and didn't actually speak to each other until the day we met - all communication was via email or text message. Nearly 6 years later and we're still going strong! I was the one who asked him out too :)
 
TheNissanMan said:
Go on ask him/her out, you never know he/she could be thinking the same thing and have the same insecurities...

What's the worst that could happen, he/she says no, you end up being single (which your happy with) and you have the perfect excuse to go out for a night on the tiler65 with mates to perk yourself back up :D
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Eh? why bring me into it.
 
TheNissanMan said:
Go on ask him/her out, you never know he/she could be thinking the same thing and have the same insecurities...

What's the worst that could happen, he/she says no, you end up being single (which your happy with) and you have the perfect excuse to go out for a night on the pop with mates to perk yourself back up :D
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Erm, I didn't :D :D :D
 
Right, lets get back on track..................






Show him your airbags and you will not fail................works for me.
 
What's Sarah's car got to do with it ???

Unless he's a petrolhead of course...

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sorry m'darlin, im married..
 
What is the worst that can happen? He can say no.

Just ask,see how it goes........:thumbs:

Best of luck.
 
D'you gaze, touch, preen... bake him cookies?
 
I can identify with you totally. I was painfully shy when I was younger but would have no problems now which is probably the only benefit of getting older!
All I can say to you is that I'm sitting here now with a lot of regrets that are very relevant to your dilemma.
Don't let them become regrets for you.
 
Nah, just giving you a tick list. Don't go getting a nervous tick about any of `em.

Second thoughts, you could bake him suggestive digestives...
 
waspjunior said:
Don't let them become regrets for you.
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You always regret the things you didn't do in life, more than the things you did do. Ask him. Life's too short. :)
 
And don't worry about having to admit you use a Canon. If he's any good and thus a Nikon user he will understand your mistake:):p
 
PsiFox said:
And don't worry about having to admit you use a Canon. If he's any good and thus a Nikon user he will understand your mistake:):p
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:D He's a chef so that's one weight off my shoulders
 
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Ah well ask him then. You'll never have to cook again.
 
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