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That's it, in a nutshell.
One of the reasons why threads like this can be so contentious is that an OP often expects somebody to pop out of the woodwork and show them the ropes (preferably within a few weeks, and for free of course) so that they can get on and enjoy a lovely new career earning loads of money photographing weddings. As the more experienced photographers will testify, that approach has no basis in reality, but reality (usually many years of learning, training, practising, portfolio building, referral building etc) is not something that many newcomers wish to consider. We live in a "wannabe culture" - wannabe rich but don't wanna have to work hard; wannabe thin but don't wanna exercise, etc etc.
I'm glad I went on to this with my eyes open, or at least half open anyway. I knew that my business would not just take off from the moment I started it. Photography is more of a passion than a job really, you have to really love doing it to have the enthusiasm to put the hard work in. I often get impatient with it and wish that things moved along a bit quicker but I accept that not everyone is willing to give a new business a chance, especially with wedding photography, you only get one chance to get that right. I don't expect something fir nothing, I suppose I needed guidance on what to offer really.
You're right in what you say though, there is too much of that going on everywhere you look, you just don't get something for nothing though, especially not these days.

