The pain of being dumped...

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i was moaning about murdoch (again) on another thread and inadvertently posted on this thread as cambo bloke gave me the best laugh of the evening and was hoping he waxed a little more :). He popped the bubble perfectly lol

my excuse is (and im standing by it) i was in a hospital waiting room and was mid post when i was instructed to drink more water to fill my bladder. As good as the TP ap is it still doesn't work with fat fingers.

Please don't ban me for going so far off topic it's not even on this forum :D
 
Well I got through another day. I've thrown myself into going to the gym and I had a photoshoot today which I think went ok ish.

I was stupid and text him last night, saying I missed having him to talk to. No reply. Nothing. I think this is what hurts so much, the fact that I've become a nobody to him overnight.
I won't be texting him again. I think I need to hang on to whatever pride I have left now.
 
They say you've gotta kiss a lot of frogs till you meet your prince?
 
Been there, done that (got dumped "I'm sorry, I just don't love you any more"), got the t-shirt, considered ending it all, didn't - got a call from her mother to tell me that she had had a massive car crash and broke her leg (trying to get me to "come running"), "Sorry to hear that, but she excised herself from my life, not the other way around despite what she's obviously told you".

Was quietly ignoring the opposite gender for romantic purposes for the next decade and then bumped in to the present Bidie-In, whilst out at Chester Zoo taking photos actually, a week before I finished a 2 year work assignment in Cheshire and was due to move back to the other side of the country... (that was 13 years ago now...)

Clearly she was drawn in by the contents of my camera bag :lol:
 
Princess said:
Well I got through another day. I've thrown myself into going to the gym and I had a photoshoot today which I think went ok ish.

I was stupid and text him last night, saying I missed having him to talk to. No reply. Nothing. I think this is what hurts so much, the fact that I've become a nobody to him overnight.
I won't be texting him again. I think I need to hang on to whatever pride I have left now.
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Good idea to keep your mind occupied...... don't dwell and dont forget to throw yourself into your photography as well

Keep your pride, don't look back, just look forward.

and remember you're amongst friends here :)
 
Delete his number and all texts - common sense usually kicks in before youactually type his no in
 
cambsno said:
About time for a lonely hearts section on TP?
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We could even get Docholiday to manage an embarrassing bodies section :gag: Who`s up first :suspect:

All the best Lucy I am sure you will not regret what has happened in a short time. And dont make the mistake of going to look for Love, it will find you :thumbs:
 
Princess said:
Well I got through another day. I've thrown myself into going to the gym and I had a photoshoot today which I think went ok ish.

I was stupid and text him last night, saying I missed having him to talk to. No reply. Nothing. I think this is what hurts so much, the fact that I've become a nobody to him overnight.
I won't be texting him again. I think I need to hang on to whatever pride I have left now.
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Not that i'm excusing his originally crap behaviour but he's probably right to make a clean break (for both of you), I mean you've split up and presumably he doesnt want to get back together so what is there to talk about ?

I split up with my ex after it came to light that she'd had a one night stand with one of my alledged mates at the rugby club (and quite possibly the rest of the first XV, most of the oposing side, and the ref , both linesman and half the crowd.... bitter, moi :lol: ) - about 6 months latter I got a text out of the blue saying that she "missed me and wanted to talk" - I was like "yeah thats going to happen" and didnt bother responding.

I'm not saying for a moment that you've done that ( unless your name is belinda and you live near milton keynes... ) but when relationships go south it often hurts the dumper just as much as the dumpee and it may be that the only way he can cope is to forget the whole thing

or he could just be a selfish arse hole :lol:

The other thing i'd mention is that although it feels like the end of the world right now it isnt... after belinda and I split it was at least a month until i'd stopped crying myself to sleep amnd the best part of a year until i could handle a relationship again - but i've now been with the actual girl of my dreams for nearly 5 years and married to her for 3

Mr right is out there somewhere ... he could even be lurking on this forum somewhere (i met my mrs through www.wildaboutbritain.co.uk), or he could be in front of you in the queur in tesco, at your bus stop, or about to walk into a party you're at ... at least now when you do meet him you won't have mr wrong cramping your style ;)
 
big soft moose said:
or he could be in front of you in the queur in tesco, at your bus stop, or about to walk into a party you're at ... at least now when you do meet him you won't have mr wrong cramping your style ;)
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In front of the queer in tesco?? :lol: :D
 
Princess said:
No reasonable explanation Lynton. Other than he was unhappy. Good enough reason I'd say, just maybe a bit odd from someone who declares their love for you on a regular basis. Empty words now I think.
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You didnt boil his pet rabbit by any chance, that'll get you dumped every time.
 
you speak for yourself :suspect:
 
big soft moose said:
but i've now been with the actual girl of my dreams for nearly 5 years and married to her for 3
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Don't let my girlfriend know you got married after 2 years, i've been with her for 1 year 9 months :lol:

and if she gets impatient she'll just have to make do with a :jaffa: in a box!
 
You lot do cheer me up thanks x

No, he didn't have a rabbit. I'm pretty low maintenance really. I didn't even want an egg for easter. I ate his instead. I kept it in the cupboard until he'd gone...

Every cloud...
 
hglossop said:
Don't let my girlfriend know you got married after 2 years, i've been with her for 1 year 9 months :lol:

and if she gets impatient she'll just have to make do with a :jaffa: in a box!
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Lol - I proposed after 2 months , better not tell her that either
 
This thread has really touched a nerve with me tonight as after being married for just under 2 year's I am lying in my old bed at my dad's house for the first night alone because she does not know how she feels about me anymore. :(

Sorry but I am feeling a tad sorry for myself.
 
Nick...I feel for you, I really do, because it's hard :'( I'll hope that tomorrow she realises what she has x
 
Thanks, I think she is going through as much as me but it's a tad easier for her as she is in the driving seat.

I will never understand a woman
 
Maybe so :(

I'll never understand you men either!! Give me a tub of Ben & Jerrys someone, this thread may go on a bit tonight, I've had a few shorts, medicinal purposes you understand.
 
big soft moose said:
Lol - I proposed after 2 months , better not tell her that either
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lol - my first wife did that to me, marriage didn't survive the honeymoon.

I think, although its easy to say, that things do happen for a reason, and although its not easy to see at the time they are normally for the better ;) and clear the people who don't deserve you out of your life
 
hglossop said:
I doubt guys will ever understand the mystery that is a woman.
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If I do I will be writing a book and making my millions
 
LOL Glad I'm a canon girl!

You know what has really upset me tonight? I need to keep off his facebook page. I keep looking, wondering what he's doing. All he is really doing is 'liking' truly awful photos on his friends profiles. Bad lighting, bad wb, bad, bad, bad everything. One is of a really pretty lady he's friends with :(
 
Princess said:
LOL Glad I'm a canon girl!

You know what has really upset me tonight? I need to keep off his facebook page. I keep looking, wondering what he's doing. All he is really doing is 'liking' truly awful photos on his friends profiles. Bad lighting, bad wb, bad, bad, bad everything. One is of a really pretty lady he's friends with :(
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just defriend him. Don't do that I wonder if bit.............its not good for you
 
Or even block him completely, that way he can't see you and you won't be able to see his wall of even find him
 
I'm not the spiteful type, but no, his pecker wasn't the problem!

I have nearly 200 pairs of shoes.....shall I go now?!

I can't defriend him, that shows I'm being silly. I won't stoop to that level. Keep your friends close, and your enemies closer maybe?
 
How do you find 200 pairs of shoes you like?

Defriend him, its not silly, just resisting the urge to look
 
If he is no longer a friend there is no need to have him as a friend on fb.

200 pairs of shoes, think of all the lenses you could buy with that money;)
 
I could easily find another 200 pairs I like! I just like nice things. I work hard, so I deserve them.

It would be his birthday next week. I got him a Lamboughini driving day at Rockingham. Anyone want to come take photos of me crashing it? lol
 
am not going to argue with you about nice things ;)

don't crash the lambo though - enjoy driving it, but you like nice things
 
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