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No grief here. I did not know him personally.
Sadness yes , but based on a loss of someone who has made me laugh for 40+ years and who I looked forward to the 'what next'. He visited me in my home many times to make me laugh and to be challenged. Sometimes he shocked me but mainly I laughed and looked forward to his next visit. If I was too busy to spend time with him there ws always another time.
For me personally his suicide triggered memories of 2 people I knew, who in the depths of despair from depression, took their own lives. At that point the past pops up and the shock of the past returns for a while.
This country has just remembered the loss of over 700,000 men in 4 years of a pointless war during 1914-18 with public ceremonies which included many tears from strangers or from the young who may not have any memories of family members who knew those that died... karaoke grief in those cases? You decide.
In following Lynton's lead are you creating a "karaoke disdain' crowd outbutst?
That said, thank you for your input..... it allowed me to have a retrospective on 2 friends who took their own lives and a Great Grandfather who survived being wounded and gassed in Belgium in 1917 (they called it Passchendale) only to spend a long time slowly suffering till his death in 1964. I was young enough not to know his suffering but old enough to have met him.Every year on a Sunday in November, his name is read out in church and complete strangers pray for his soul and put poppies around a small cross with his name on.......
I think it fair to say that WW I and WW II had a far deeper impact. I tried for ages to understand what my grandad did in WW II.. Home guard (he was 38 at the outbreak, so pretty much too old to serve in the army/navy/or RAF)... however whilst a gas fitter and also serving on the railway he regularly went down to London during the blitz with my then 3 to 7 yr old uncle.... He would never talk about it...
Apologies for the thread hijack..
