We've done two weddings now. The first we were there as secondary togs but spent most of the day there - most of you have seen the results and there were mixed feelings/reactions towards them. We were happy with them and the bride/her family were thrilled. Needless to say we've come across as a lot more professional than the "professional tog" who she's still trying to get in touch with in order to get some prints ordered. Shes had a few hundred from us in varying sizes and styles.
The second wedding we did was more difficult - inside shots for the most part in less than forgiving conditions - less than 10 shots outside, over two days, main photographers. Came away with lots of good shots, again the bride is very happy with them and is in the process of distributing cds for her family to look at and order prints from.
Papa does have a valid point, but I'm not sure that the only way to get experience is to help out an already experienced wedding photographer. There are some truely awful "professionals" out there, there was that one on tv a few months ago. Everyone has their own style - some people are better at organising and capturing formal "posed" shots, others like Sue and I prefer to capture the candid moments when nobody is aware the camera is pointed at them (as well as capturing the formal stuff). It makes for a more interesting wedding album (in my opinion).
As for rain, I'm not sure what I'd do in the circumstances - we've been lucky so far but if we keep doing weddings its something that is invariably going to come up and we'll just have to deal with it - like having to shoot at ISO 1600 in a curry house for formal posed wedding shots

, its sound advice to scope out your venues beforehand though without question. It always helps to be prepared.
The forum is friendly and supportive but theres also concern about running before you can walk and from papa's point of view as a professional wedding tog you should know how to take photos in the rain - thats fair enough and the wedding photography industry is very competitive. Its the biggest thing for me and sue - the one chance to get the shots. Take the shots twice, one on each camera if you can (and have two bodies).
We'll worry and worry about it until the day, once we take the first picture we seem to forget about anything else and just get in the "zone", taking photos, making sure the photos look okay.
I dunno what else to say really. Just good luck for the day I think
