I hope (assuming foul play is confirmed) the ******* is caught quickly....
Really? 15 years in a cushy prison with 3 meals a day (getting more spent on him than an OAPs home or kids school lunch), heating and TV... Then probably leave with a pile of cash in damages because he had the trauma of addressing the prison officer as Sir.
Really? 15 years in a cushy prison with 3 meals a day (getting more spent on him than an OAPs home or kids school lunch), heating and TV... Then probably leave with a pile of cash in damages because he had the trauma of addressing the prison officer as Sir.
cambsno said:Really? 15 years in a cushy prison with 3 meals a day (getting more spent on him than an OAPs home or kids school lunch), heating and TV... Then probably leave with a pile of cash in damages because he had the trauma of addressing the prison officer as Sir.
Is this someone from the forum or does someone here know them? Always terrible to hear news of someone losing a life but I feel I'm missing part of the story here.
No, you're right, far better the perpetrator isn't caught, so that the poor girl's family have to endure years of not knowing what happened to her, why don't you phone her parents up and point that out to them.
You should be ashamed of yourself for making a comment like that.
I guess it must ... couldn't even bare to think about that choice myself. :shake:
Terrible news, let's hope whoever did it swings!
Does bring home what really matters...on today of all days.
Just my assumption of a likely scenario. The new boyfriend ate the pizza !
re-edit, deleted most of this post as not to offend in this age of sensitivity.
Age of sensitivity,:shake:
I think people have always been sensitive and compassionate when someone's daughter has been murdered.
Grim stuff indeed...
I'm afraid I fully sympathise with Cambsno's initial comment - I think we all know that no matter how uncomfortable a modern prison cell might be, it's no subsitute for good old-fashioned vengeance.
Nothing's going to bring her back and i agree that having a body to bury is prefereable to 'not knowing', but the sense of impotence will never go away...the feeling that you somehow failed to protect your loved one. That sense of outrage (or even just rage) needs to be addressed also...
I've often wondered if out-sourcing to the Indian sub-continent might be an option for certain types of offender...? Along with email updates a la Facebook style:
"Offender A is this week mostly contracting amoebic dysentry and Hep-B at the hands of his 40 cell-mates and will find sitting-down uncomfortable for the next month or so..."
I too am very sad about the whole thing. I was also a Prison Officer [we don't have 'warders'] and believe me prison is no soft option. Most people who have not been inside a jail would cringe in horror at spending a few hours there let alone years.
Every waking moment is controlled by staff, when they get let out and for how long. Letters, phone calls, meal times, social time all is controlled tightly. Prisons are smelly, noisy overcrowded and the threat of violence and intimidation is omnipresent and very real. Have a cell mate whose social skills end at pi**ing or w**king over your bed [or you]. Fun fun fun, but hey ho the telly in the cell makes up for it. Prisoners get sweet FA all and loads of it! But above all they lose their most precious assett, freedom.
As we used to say 'happiness is door shaped'.
Ex Door Slammer
Thanks for clarifying this. My dad is a retired prison officer and although I don't know the full story of what it's like inside i've got a fair idea that it's not all fun & games.
My thoughts are with the parents and everyone who knew here, so sad, but as far as i a aware from the news this morning, no cause of death has been released yet unless I'm missing something :shrug: