Well, my new
Epson V500 scanner arrived this morning and I have installed the software and fired it up to try see if it can do what I wanted it to do. Quick answer is; it can

!
Although I know that I will be able to refine my scanning technique by reading the user manual (which seems to an online thing) and learning about
all of the settings, I quickly discovered enough to be able to make two test scans of a photograph that was developed, printed and scanned by my local photographic 'specialist' some months ago.
The film was (the dreaded

)
Kodak BW400CN (C41 process pseudo b&w), but I just scanned it as regular 16-bit grayscale. Also, it was a hand held capture, through a slightly greasy and steamed up window - not ideal for a test shot, or is it

!? Here are the 1000 pixel results (
please click on them to judge sharpness/IQ):
1. Photographic store scan.
(Somewhat high on grain and a little 'bright' in exposure terms, but worst of all .. this is the maximum size of the scan
).
2. Epson V500 scan of 6"x4" print.
(Pretty much what I expected from the V500 - sharpened up well and can be printed much, much larger than the tiny scan above it).
3. Epson V500 scan of negative.
(This is the one I was scared about seeing. I needn't have been though - it turned out to be even better than the scan of the printed photo! There's more fine detail and it's really easy to work with such a large scan in PP).
Personally (and happily

), I prefer the scanned negative (#3) by far. Not only is the full DR still all there (some of the highlights were somehow 'flattened out' by the enlarger used for the prints and I couldn't get any life back into them in PP ), but even more exciting than that is the fact that
I got all of the picture back 
. Once I finally figured out how to get the Epson to give me a scan of the
whole neg, without cropping it down, I was able to just re-crop (and re-tone a little) the resultant scan, using other software

. This is a major plus, which I hadn't even considered before.
The print (and scan) that I got back from the shop had been more tightly (i.e. carelessly) cropped cropped and frankly, it had ruined some of my more carefully framed shots

. Notice how you can see (in the third picture) that both of the gentlemen working in the Soho restaurant actually have at least one hand each

)!?
So, my initial feeling is that I have found, with your help

, exactly the right tool for the job. Next step is to get into developing my own film and then I will pretty much self-sufficient, as far as creating affordable b&w digital images to go onto the '35mm Film' page of my website is concerned

.
Thanks again to everyone who has advised and supported me with this project, so far

.
Andy