Daughters (teenage) AGHHHHHHH....

No, no, I'm not losing any sleep over it. It just disappoints me that some people feel it's okay to insult someone and then just laugh it off. I PM'd him and he said "lmao fair enouf lol " and "if u dont like it theres a little ignore button". No apology, but just laughing.

I don't want to beat a dead horse though.
 
well as a treat, ive banned him for 24hours so he can think about it.
 
i like how the name gets crossed through when they get suspended, in the latest update:)

what dos it look like on banned people?
 
looks the same. hes got 24 hours to think about his actions. Hopefully he will apologise after
 
Well aside from Ashers juvenile input, this thread has kept me laughing for the last 20 minutes :D

I have 2 teenagers - MkI was so bad when she was 15, she eventually got shipped back to her fathers 200 miles away, where life is a lot less cushy, but of course, still being a teenager means she refuses to admit she is and was wrong and has infact got the 'cutting off your nose to spite your face' down to the finest of arts :cuckoo: Pretty sure she will grow out of it one day. FWIW, I spent more time in my routers control panel turning her wifi access off than I did actually being on the internet myself!

MkII is totally the opposite, now also 15 and horribly well behaved and good. So much so, she absolutely hates chavs, drinking alcopops in the park and anything that smacks of...well, typical teenagerdom - oh yeah, apart from spending money. Yesterday she decided she needed a new bikini, my OH was winding her up when she held her hand out by paraphrasing the usual teenage step-child rant by repeating, 'you are not my daughter, you can't tell me what to do with my money!' :lol: ;)
 
I sympathise with you, but if you have not only posted about the relationship with your daughter but also posted images of her for the whole world to see without her permission I would consider that to be totally out of order.

If that is the case it will only further damage your relations with your daughter should she ever read this thread, I shudder to think what her reaction would be to finding out.

Yes I have had the experience of bringing up teenagers.
 
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ever heard of keylogging your parents banking computer :D

makes it an endless supply :D

(nb I'm kidding or I'd have more toys)
 
Galaxy66 said:
I sympathise with you, but if you have not only posted about the relationship with your daughter but also posted images of her for the whole world to see without her permission I would consider that to be totally out of order.

If that is the case it will only further damage your relations with your daughter should she ever read this thread, I shudder to think what her reaction would be to finding out.

Yes I have had the experience of bringing up teenagers.
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I don't think anybody had made any sensitive comments about their teenagers. My daughter has seen the photo I've posted and read this thread. We have had s good laugh about it including the inapropriate comments from our younger members.
 
foggy4ever said:
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I don't think anybody had made any sensitive comments about their teenagers. My daughter has seen the photo I've posted and read this thread. We have had s good laugh about it including the inapropriate comments from our younger members.
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I am honestly pleased to hear that!.
 
Galaxy66 said:
I sympathise with you, but if you have not only posted about the relationship with your daughter but also posted images of her for the whole world to see without her permission I would consider that to be totally out of order.

If that is the case it will only further damage your relations with your daughter should she ever read this thread, I shudder to think what her reaction would be to finding out.

Yes I have had the experience of bringing up teenagers.
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I'm not sure whether you're referring to the OP or to others of us who have mentioned our daughters, but I have not said anything about my daughter that I would not have said to her face. As foggy says, there's been nothing untoward said - apart from something a young member said yesterday.

My daughter would not be bothered in the slightest in me having written about her relationship with her boyfriend, or our mother/daughter relationship - she's an adult. As I've also said, we are very open and honest with each other - have no secrets from one another, and so she could read this and not be bothered - I think she's a member anyway.
 
:thumbs: :lol: I've enjoyed this thread!
(apart from that one comment that obviously took things too far)

RogWarham said:
WHY oh WHY do they feel they have to TRY and treat you like something they have just stepped in...
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And to answer that first question. . . as an ex-teenage daughter myself I'm a bit of an expert in this field and the answer is quite simple.
It's because they are teenage daughters :D

My advice - Hold your breath, count to ten and it'll be fine.
Better still, see if you can keep on holding it for the next 5 years ;)
 
Mrs Cowasaki said:
I'm not sure whether you're referring to the OP or to others of us who have mentioned our daughters, but I have not said anything about my daughter that I would not have said to her face. As foggy says, there's been nothing untoward said - apart from something a young member said yesterday.

My daughter would not be bothered in the slightest in me having written about her relationship with her boyfriend, or our mother/daughter relationship - she's an adult. As I've also said, we are very open and honest with each other - have no secrets from one another, and so she could read this and not be bothered - I think she's a member anyway.
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Ahh I did wrongly attribute the pic from foggy with the op. nonetheless aside from me making that mistake, although you do not have such a problem the point I was making was that there would be many a daughter, or son for that matter, who would be highly hung up if they discovered their parents were posting about them in a forum.

Btw is the heating working ok ? that was the wettest journey I have ever undertook!!.
 
i like how the name gets crossed through when they get suspended, in the latest update
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That's not the latest forum software, it was a manual change I made a couple of weeks ago :)

FWIW I'm really enjoying this thread too. My 10 yr old has the markings of a teenage girl hell bent on evil parental destruction, so I'm trying to lay the groundwork now for when it kicks in properly.
Making sure discussion channels are open etc etc, so she can talk to me about anything and everything.

As for Mrs Cowasaki's attitude towards boyfriends and sex, I think its a great attitude to have, non-hypocritical and a little understanding, and I hope when mine are 18/19 that I'll be the same. Although I think it will depend on how mature and sensible they are (I was very mature and sensible from a very early age).

Although I have told my daughter she's never having a boyfriend until she's at least 25.

Keep the stories coming, theyre helping me prepare :D
 
Thank the rubber companies and modern pharmaceuticals for contraception!
 
foggy4ever said:
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I don't think anybody had made any sensitive comments about their teenagers. My daughter has seen the photo I've posted and read this thread. We have had s good laugh about it including the inapropriate comments from our younger members.
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oi i'm not innapropriate :D


oh and if you did want to spy on various people computers google tight vnc, I use it for maintenance on home computers (cos I'm too lazy to walk downstairs) and now that my 8 year old niece has started playing internet games her mum 'listens' to the computer she's on
 
This reminds me of a colleague I worked with a while back - he's an ex-Para with two extremely gorgeous daughters. He frequently told them in no uncertain terms (but in jest) that if either of them ever brought a boyfrind home, he'd kill them on the doorstep... with this guy you never knew quite when he was joking or not.

Well the time eventually came to pass that a boyfriend came to call on the eldest daughter and Kev just happened to open the door. The lad just stammered for a bit, then looking at Kev (who hadn't said a word and was fully prepared to invite him in for a beer and a 'chat' about 'intentions' etc), suddenly turned and bolted!
Kev said later he was totally surprised, but the opportunity was too good to pass up, so he chased him for half a mile down the road...
Daughter #1 didn't speak to him for a week by all accounts and the poor lad never came back...
 
reading this makes me think i'm sooo glad i never plan to have children!!
 
My mate is a burly fireman who has two very attractive daughters (Ive told him to ask for a paternity test....no way are they the fruits of his ugly loins)
When potential suiters open the drive gates he see's them and is at the door, waiting for them to knock. He yanks the door open jst as they are about to land the 'knock' and shouts 'WHAT'??!
Just to put them on the back foot.....

Theres no harm in bieng frightened of your girlfriend's Dad, its something to talk to him about in the pub in a couple of years time, after youve made an honest woman of his pride and joy.....
 
I don't think he did, he just gave up when the urge to laugh overwhelmed him...lol
 
luckily i'm normally a hit with parents, and haven't had the old man hating me yet, no doubt it will come though at some point :lol:
 
i had a girlfriend a fair few years back whos father hated me, i got on really well with her mother but her father (seperated) dispised me, he claimed i was a no hoper waste of space (im not the one that shags hookers and got caught by his ex wife...) so we used to think of ways to wind him up as best we could, it was quite funny really, i just chalked it down to experience.
 
Marcel said:
As for Mrs Cowasaki's attitude towards boyfriends and sex, I think its a great attitude to have, non-hypocritical and a little understanding, and I hope when mine are 18/19 that I'll be the same. Although I think it will depend on how mature and sensible they are (I was very mature and sensible from a very early age).
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Thank you Marcel!

Basically, I'm a big kid at heart myself and so relate to my kids on a similar level - and also felt that they were going to do it anyway, so better at home where I know where they are and they're safe, than elsewhere. My philosophy was proven when my then 20 year old son (now almost 23) was first seeing his girlfriend. We were happy for them to share a room at our house, but her parents were not. Consequently, when he stayed at her house, they used to go to the park to be intimate. They were caught by the police with underpants round their ankles! We've had some laughs about that ever since. They're now happily living together with a beautiful baby daughter.
 
I think therein lies the proof in the pudding.

My kids are going to have sex, theyre going to get drunk.
I hope as a parent I will have instilled enough sense, self worth and self control in them to be able to deal with it all though.

Same with drugs and crime, I can't keep them grounded forever, so the best course of action is educate them and instill a good sense of morality and decency in them so they dont *want* to do anything they shouldnt be doing. If I can lay the groundwork and then follow it up with an open avenue of discussion so they can continue to come to my wife and I to talk about it and for help, then there really isn't much more I can do.

If they're gonna do it anyway, I'd rather they did it properly educated and within a safe comfortable environment.
 
Ashers said:
u can imagine my apology if u like :)
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Just how childish can you get Ash?


And you wonder why things are always going wrong for you ... :shrug: With an attitude like that ... You deserve everything you get.

Just as well it's not up to me what happens to you this time.
 
Marcel said:
I think therein lies the proof in the pudding.

My kids are going to have sex, theyre going to get drunk.
I hope as a parent I will have instilled enough sense, self worth and self control in them to be able to deal with it all though.

Same with drugs and crime, I can't keep them grounded forever, so the best course of action is educate them and instill a good sense of morality and decency in them so they dont *want* to do anything they shouldnt be doing. If I can lay the groundwork and then follow it up with an open avenue of discussion so they can continue to come to my wife and I to talk about it and for help, then there really isn't much more I can do.

If they're gonna do it anyway, I'd rather they did it properly educated and within a safe comfortable environment.
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My kind of parent. :thumbs:
 
Ashers said:
u can imagine my apology if u like :)
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I think you're a lost cause Ashers. I'm not upset about what you said (although I was at the time) - I'm just lost for words at the appalling attitude which you seem to exhibit every time you make a post. That's obviously your true personality.

I'm not going to waste my "breath" on you anymore. Responding to such a rude and juvenile attitude is not worth my time and energy. Besides which, the only thing you know how to say is lmao and lol!!! Try to expand your vocabulary and learn respect for others, so that you have opinions others may want to read about. Neither this, nor any other thread was started so that you could laugh at other people. Please grow up. :thumbsdown:
 
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