Seriously,so you'd be happy for a member of your family to be shipped about in a open coffin in the back of a Transit van ,well I bloody wouldn't !!!
I couldn't believe the undertakers work to performance targets, my partner and I have said we would not use the co -op, I thought the sales targets and hard sell were only for spivs.
Seriously,so you'd be happy for a member of your family to be shipped about in a open coffin in the back of a Transit van ,well I bloody wouldn't !!!
Well it would not worry me at all, my father and I both believe in the same thing that when we are dead just put us in a black plastic bag and throw our bodies in the trash as we'll know nothing about it.
Neither of us want any from of service at all, funerals are only for the living, the dead don't care.
acetone said:Well it would not worry me at all, my father and I both believe in the same thing that when we are dead just put us in a black plastic bag and throw our bodies in the trash as we'll know nothing about it.
Neither of us want any from of service at all, funerals are only for the living, the dead don't care.
I've only dealt with this situation once and it was enough. My mother (who was dying) and I had discussed what she wanted and like others here it was simple basic stick me in a box and burn me. She was a church goer so wanted that part at least for her friends there. The funeral company put so much pressure on me to spend more and more, I was shocked at the callousness of it.
In the end I chose and paid for an 'oak' coffin, on the day I'm sitting in the church looking at a chipboard box with bashed corners and peeling paper veneer, I was livid but couldn't really call a stop to the proceedings to complain and afterwards, the 'evidence' was gone of course.
What about the rest of your family, are they of the same opinion?
Obviously we've been brought up in different worlds.