I really don't understand the outrage TBH :shrug:
When my ex was feeding "our two"
It was always "breast is best" for her, she never ever used a bottle or "expressed" at anytime.
Many times it was done / had to be done in public, as one of ours was a bloody gannet!
In fact she belonged to the NCT.
They used to have social get together's,
and of course the off spring needed feeding.
The women would "proudly" feed their babies, a "little discreetly" of course, but then
no one was taking any notice,
and the guys would all sit around chatting drinking beer or whatever.
There was never a sense of embarrassment, from either the women or the men.
Its one of the most natural an beautiful things in the world.
And should be "out in the open"
But of course if you think it should be behind closed doors,
and or under cover of darkness, like some dirty little habit,
and not to be discussed,
I'm quite willing to listen as to why you would think this.............