Gramps, I suppose I've interviewed several hundred people who were involved in armed robberies - mainly with firearms - during the last 10 years or so. I'm not exaggerating. I worked in a security consulting role and they were clients' employees, mainly, but not all, in retail situations. Its ugly and frightening but very few of these situations - or hijackings - result in death or serious injury. Small comfort I suppose, and I'm not making making light of your friends experience. Maybe my own perspectives have just become distorted.
I can understand why you're baffled, but I'm South African on my mother's side and both my kids were born and brought up there. They still live in Joburg but have British passports, so they can move to the UK/EU if they want to, but neither of them has any desire to leave. My daughter has visited the UK several times, and worked in London briefly, and is firmly convinced that she doesn't want to live here.
This probably sounds a bit facile, but Africa gets into you. The sun, blue skies, wide open spaces, the bush, endless beaches and mountains, and the people. The violence is part of Africa's tragedy, but I miss SA like hell, warts and all, and I will go back.
I can understand why you're baffled, but I'm South African on my mother's side and both my kids were born and brought up there. They still live in Joburg but have British passports, so they can move to the UK/EU if they want to, but neither of them has any desire to leave. My daughter has visited the UK several times, and worked in London briefly, and is firmly convinced that she doesn't want to live here.
This probably sounds a bit facile, but Africa gets into you. The sun, blue skies, wide open spaces, the bush, endless beaches and mountains, and the people. The violence is part of Africa's tragedy, but I miss SA like hell, warts and all, and I will go back.