Sticking to the pic I first posted, what would you of done differently given the average conditions?
You mean the picture of the house?
Well I'm no expert, but I'd pick a different time of day to shoot, with the light stronger and more contrasty, and creating form in the scene from the combination of highlight and shadow that directional light creates when striking across a scene.
I also might change the composition, reducing the amount of interference from the plant in the foreground, without losing it completely, but maybe also changing my shooting height too. Look for interesting angles. Get low. Get high. Don't just settle for a shot from standing height.
Then there's the scene content. It's just a regular house and garden, not majestic, not a show house. Nothing in the garden is in bloom. Would you see this house in this condition and this light featured in "Homes & Gardens"? I suspect not. Is it going to stir the soul? Not mine.
But the main thing is the light. The light you have here is drab. The issue is not the exposure. It's other things.
Moving to your "reference images", I don't think much of the picture of the guy. This is not the sort of light one would usually seek for a portrait. It is very high and leaving patches of hotspots and shade which do not flatter the subject. I also find the composition quite odd and I don't know what is going on with his arms, but they seem to be sticking out, or up, but why I have no idea. The appeal is probably in the colour contrast between the jumper and the background, and also the DOF which is blurring the background and creating separation between subject and background. Of course, a sunny day often helps the mood, which might be what you like in this photo, but I don't know what the appeal is for you.
As for the scenic shot, well it's an attractive scene, creating a sense of charm and a wonderful lifestyle. The light is cheerful and uplifting. Who wouldn't want to be there? Compared to a modest suburban house with a garden in the shade there seems to be a bit of a gap in the scene content, never mind anything else.
On the downside there is a lump of foliage obscuring the house/chateau which just gets in the way. Maybe there's not much to be done about that, other than chopping it down. I don't see an obvious way to gain an angle that would move it out of the way while preserving the desired perspective and framing for the rest of the scene.
I'm not sure what you are looking for, but exposure does not appear to be the problem to be solved. It's more about having creative vision and understanding light. I can't solve those things for you. I struggle to solve them for myself.