thank you laurie for the compliment.I am seeing quite a bit of improvement since last year but it is frustrating sometimes not knowing why some images are better than others.
I can't get close enough to the camera and high enough to see through the EVF so even a tapletop tripod is no help regretably for the bathroom. I'll have to focus my efforts on getting closer or bringing the birds closer to me in the garden.
Thank you for the settings advice. i'll up the iso to 400 (I'm mostly using A mode now)
I have booked a weeks holiday at Gigrin farm this summer and can't wait to try my luck at the Kites and other bop

I can see already that eventually I shall need to move to a good DSLR and a big expensive lens if my interest stays as keen as it is now. I'd better start saving lol.
Thank you everyone for all your helpful advice and spending so much time today trying to help. i really do appreciate it . For those that scoffed at my bridge camera .... well we all have to start somewhere and this was the best I could afford for a fledgling hobby.
Apologies if I was a bit grumpy with some of you. i'm sure that you meant well.