The way I do it is just to count the number of clicks on the shutter speed dial.
For example, if you have a ten stops filter, and your camera is set to 1/3rd stop increments, then ten stops is 30 clicks.
All these extreme NDs vary a bit, from the marked exposure factor and even between batches. Like the Lee Big Stopper is about 10.5 stops, B+W ten stopper about the same. The one I use is the LightCraftWorkshop ND500, which is allegedly nine stops (as in x500 exposure factor) but mine checks out at 8.3 - so that's 25 clicks.