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I have not been on for a few weeks because of a family crisis, a couple of weeks ago my wife was on her way home from work, (nights) when she was attacked. It was NOT a sexual attack just physical, broke her nose, 1 finger and cuts and bruises. She has no idea why, 2 males and 1 female, walked past her and just lashed out. I want to find them and hurt them real bad, i have got a few chosen friends on the case and we will bump into them. i am willing to do time for these people, i WILL take the law into my own hands and will be judge and jury at once. So please any one who is out and about by themselves be careful.
 
Really sorry to hear about your wife :( There is some absolute scum out there.
 
I'm so sorry to hear that Gareth - I can't type on here what I'd actually like to say about these people.
I hope your wife makes a speedy recovery and that this incident doesn't affect her too badly.

I know how you feel (I'm not just saying that, I really do know how you feel about scum hurting your family) but please think again about taking things into your own hands.
It's not going to help your wife if she has to worry about you too - either you being hurt or getting arrested.
 
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Hope you nail the scum and dont get yourself caught in the process.
 
gazza2168 said:
I have not been on for a few weeks because of a family crisis, a couple of weeks ago my wife was on her way home from work, (nights) when she was attacked. It was NOT a sexual attack just physical, broke her nose, 1 finger and cuts and bruises. She has no idea why, 2 males and 1 female, walked past her and just lashed out. I want to find them and hurt them real bad, i have got a few chosen friends on the case and we will bump into them. i am willing to do time for these people, i WILL take the law into my own hands and will be judge and jury at once. So please any one who is out and about by themselves be careful.
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As much as i sympathize with you it was incredibly stupid posting that on here.
If something happens to these people, the statement you made is going to see you do roughly 5 to 7 years. In all honesty even if these people get done in and you weren't involved you could end up getting the blame for it.
 
Craigf, i dont really care, it does not matter to me if these people are beaten to a pulp, innocent untill proven guilty, i think is the saying, at this moment in time that is the way i feel, and nothing will change that untill i start thinking rationally, and seeing past the red mist. I know what you are saying and i know deep down what i want to do is illegal, is wrong because it brings me down to their level of gutter scum, time is a great healer, i will give it time.
 
CraigF said:
As much as i sympathize with you it was incredibly stupid posting that on here.
If something happens to these people, the statement you made is going to see you do roughly 5 to 7 years. In all honesty even if these people get done in and you weren't involved you could end up getting the blame for it.
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Yeah, 'cos there's a good chance they are members of TP ain't there, so the attackers are BOUND to see it :cuckoo:

I totally agree with Tobers :thumbs:

Sorry to hear about your wife mate. Such a sad world we live in.........
 
Hope you wife recovers well soon. I hope the only scars she has heal and vanish and dont elave a mark mentally.

Dont take the matter into your own hands. I cant know how you are feeling and i am sure that you are very emotional at the moment. It maybe affecting you judgements and thought. As stated think about your family if they come back after you or you get arrested. You will be no better then them. Dont add to the hurt that your family must be going through right now.
 
andy_fozzy said:
Yeah, 'cos there's a good chance they are members of TP ain't there, so the attackers are BOUND to see it :cuckoo:

I totally agree with Tobers :thumbs:

Sorry to hear about your wife mate. Such a sad world we live in.........
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No they are probably not, and also the Police are so damn stupid they wont grab his PC or Laptop during an investigation.
Oh wait...Yes they will Idiot. :cuckoo:
 
gazza2168 said:
Craigf, i dont really care, it does not matter to me if these people are beaten to a pulp, innocent untill proven guilty, i think is the saying, at this moment in time that is the way i feel, and nothing will change that untill i start thinking rationally, and seeing past the red mist. I know what you are saying and i know deep down what i want to do is illegal, is wrong because it brings me down to their level of gutter scum, time is a great healer, i will give it time.
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Exactly Gareth, that is what separates us from them. Time is a wonderful thing.
I just get annoyed when you get advice of "do this and do that" from people who would not have the balls to do it themselves.
Take my advice and let the police deal with this one.
 
SarahLee said:
please think again about taking things into your own hands.
It's not going to help your wife if she has to worry about you too - either you being hurt or getting arrested.
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Absolutely right, they have hurt you once, don't let them hurt you again by the consequences of understandable but irrational and foolish actions.
 
Cannot understand how this thread is being allowed to continue to be honest ... :shrug:

While I understand your predicament and feel your pain ... I cannot see how making a written declaration of violence will help your cause
 
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Dont take the matter into your own hands. I cant know how you are feeling and i am sure that you are very emotional at the moment. It maybe affecting you judgements and thought. As stated think about your family if they come back after you or you get arrested. You will be no better then them. Dont add to the hurt that your family must be going through right now.
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Sorry to hear this news, but please do take the advice given above, it will do no one any good if you get locked up and get a record to suit, you never know when having a record might just hinder your future.
Report it to the Police and follow it up, any leads you might get, pass them on and let the Police do their job.

I can see that this advice will feel like letting things go at the moment but long term is the best advice.
 
Just had to talk, you know. But I will remember when you are posting make sure I put my worthless opinion in
 
Really not clever posting on here. Just google 'Gareth wife attacked' and see what comes out at result number two...

I totally understand you being very angry about the incident but please let your taxpayers money work by letting the police deal with it - even if you find them.

Reread Craig and particularly Sarahs posts - especially about making the incident even more disstressing for your wife.

If it were me I would hit the RTM button and report thread to mods, and ask for the whole thread to be deleted asap.

:)
 
hypnotic said:
So all our opinions are worthless? .... Good luck bud ... :suspect:

Sounds like you're gonna need it.
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No i never said all opinions are worthless, i'm angry and frustrated, i just wanted to rant and rave silently because there has been enough of that vocaly in my house over the last couple of weeks, i want something done surely you can understand that, i have suffered, my kids have suffered but none more than my wife, all i wanted to do was share my problem, a problem shared is a problem halved is it not? and i appreciate all the decent advice given, yes you are all right (well most of you) i am calming down slowly but surely, i hope they get caught, and justice is served. sorry all.
 
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This is not a rant forum though, is it?

Last time I looked it was a photography forum ... :thinking:

I suggest you get some help before you do something you WILL regret later


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Where are the mods when you need them?
 
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gazza2168 said:
No i never said all opinions are worthless just yours. So its ok for me and mine to suffer ACTUAL mindless violence but its wrong for me to want retribution, thinking it and writing about it are totaly different to actually doing it, or are you a member of the dreaded pc crew. i hope and pray that nothing ever happens to you or any of your family, because to come on here and rant about it in a rant forum is wrong, i do apologise.
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So, really what you were wanting was for everyone to tell you to go out and seek revenge? It's understandable that you're angry, but posting what amounts to a threat on the internet will only rebound on you if either you, or someone else, attacks these people.
 
hypnotic said:
This is not a rant forum though, is it?

Last time I looked it was a photography forum ... :thinking:

I suggest you get some help before you do something you WILL regret later





Where are the mods when you need them?
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Totally unrelated off topic type stuff, jokes, rants, raves. :thumbs:
 
I fully understand gazza. Maybe not the best presented case for vigilantes, but that, in essence, is what's needed.
The general public is weary of the law in general providing soft sentencing for something that really does require a very hard lesson.
The sooner our communities reclaim the upper hand from the vermin that know they can do virtually anything without any reprisal, the better our country will be.

Sooner or later that will mean vigilantes. It's not an ideal solution to the lawlessness, but it seems the only effective alternative some communities have.
 
hypnotic said:
This is not a rant forum though, is it?

Last time I looked it was a photography forum ... :thinking:

I suggest you get some help before you do something you WILL regret later


Edit : gazza2168 decided to edit the last post making this one make no sense whatsoever


Where are the mods when you need them?
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what is your problem?, yes it is wrong to want to commit violence, i have said that and have nearly come to my senses about it, and why does it not make sense, if its an argument you are after look elsewhere :cuckoo:
 
I'm not sure that anyone is trying to pick an argument Gareth . . . people are just concerned about what the repercussions could be for you because of this.

Feeling like you want to beat these scum to a pulp is a perfectly normal response and I completely understand where you're coming from. I've been where you are. In fact for a while I entertained fantasies of passing the person responsible on the street and nudging them into the path of a speeding car. Not particularly rational, but it made me feel better at the time. The fact is that the anger will diminish and you'll be able to sit back and look at it sensibly which you're starting to do.

The most important thing right now is your wife and more than anything she needs her family around her right now and to feel secure - not to be worrying about what you might or might not do. Try to stay calm and reassuring around her for her sake . . . and if you need to vent here then that's OK. Just try not to go down the path of posting threats.
 
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Thanks sarah, an intelligent and rational post. i have never hurt anyone in my life (physically) so i suppose thinking like that should be at the back of my mind, its appreciated. thank you
 
gazza2168 said:
Thanks sarah, an intelligent and rational post. i have never hurt anyone in my life (physically) so i suppose thinking like that should be at the back of my mind, its appreciated. thank you
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After what's happened I think you're entitled to have an irrational moment. Once you've calmed down you'll see that there are far more reasons not to take action than there are to take things into your own hands, but right now that's probably not much help to you.

My thoughts really are with your wife and your family. I hope that you all get over this soon.
 
andy_fozzy said:
Yeah, 'cos there's a good chance they are members of TP ain't there, so the attackers are BOUND to see it :cuckoo:
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CraigF said:
Oh wait...Yes they will Idiot. :cuckoo:
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What the....
Absolutely pathetic. I really hate laying down the law and speaking like a bloody teacher, but if you insist on acting like children.....

Any more bitching like that and I will hit the ban button.

We're supposed to be a friendly forum here that posts with respect towards each other. If you can't post with respect and politeness, then go and find another forum.
 
As for the topic in hand. I can really understand your frustrations Gaz, I really can, and I feel for not just your wife, but for you aswell.
When the ones we love are hurt, we often respond with our basic animal instincts...to protect and fight back.
Some find that response easier to come by, and some find it easier to ignore.

Unfortunately, in society we can't respond the way our animal urges incite us to.
Everyone who has advised against it is right, it would only get you into trouble yourself.
Sure, you'd feel good, your wife may feel good. But what if the police come knocking? What then? Who will sit with and comfort your wife while you're locked in a police cell? Your feelings of elation and justice served from a retribution will be shortlived.

I know you've already posted saying you agree with this, I'm just reiterating the point.

PS. The reason this thread is allowed to stay open, is A : The mods didn't know of any 'arguing'...no one reported it (AFAICS), and B : This is a fellow member looking for a bit of emotional support. Surely he can be allowed to rant a bit :)
 
I might be wrong this three nasty scum may not be from an EU country that are allowed to come here freely under EU law, but this could be another bad example of the high crime they bring to the UK, many things like this go unreported, covered up by Labour etc etc. It's going to take Cameron a long time to turn things around, a bitter low legacy left by Labour won't be turned around overnight.

Gareth i hope your wife recovers quickly and you can return back to a normal life.
 
Sorry Graham but we have plenty of our own home grown scumbags in this country, we don't need to blame everything on migrants (and it's not really the point is it).

I sympathise with you and your family Gaz, I'd be reacting the same as you if it had happened to one of my family and I'm glad you're starting to come to your senses.

But if you are going to feed their dismembered bodies to pigs don't forget to remove their teeth and fingernails, they're the only bits the pigs don't like eating;) (or so I read in a book once)
 
Kev M said:
Sorry Graham but we have plenty of our own home grown scumbags in this country, we don't need to blame everything on migrants (and it's not really the point is it).

I sympathise with you and your family Gaz, I'd be reacting the same as you if it had happened to one of my family and I'm glad you're starting to come to your senses.

But if you are going to feed their dismembered bodies to pigs don't forget to remove their teeth and fingernails, they're the only bits the pigs don't like eating;) (or so I read in a book once)
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:lol::lol: at the pigs,

But seriously my thinking head is on now, so i am back to my rational self, thanks to you guys, i would still like them to be tossed into a shredder but i wont be doing it.
 
Sorry Gareth, hope your wife gets better and these people dont stop her living her life. A similar thing happened to a friend of mine a few weeks ago, a completely unmotivated, mindless attack. :(

Graham00 said:
I might be wrong this three nasty scum may not be from an EU country that are allowed to come here freely under EU law, but this could be another bad example of the high crime they bring to the UK, many things like this go unreported, covered up by Labour etc etc. It's going to take Cameron a long time to turn things around, a bitter low legacy left by Labour won't be turned around overnight.
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What an absurd, paranoid statement. Is there really a need for something like this in this thread? :cuckoo:
 
Sorry to hear this has happened to your wife, it must be awful beyond words.

I hope you all make a speedy recovery, and that your wife doesn't develop any phobias as a repercussion of what she's had to endure.


It seems everyone here has given you good advice, and thankfully you do seem to be calming down. Speaking about things sure does help to alleviate the pains. I hope your wife is able to speak to someone(s) too, to offer her that relief as well.
 
As attacks go this one sounds completely irrational and motiveless, but who knows what crap substances these people may have been using. I do sympathise Gazza and I assure you, I'd be worse than you, but the time when you might have been given any leeway for provocation by he law has long gone and any action you took now would be seen as deliberate and premeditated.

Don't do it mate, the law would make an example of you, and it's just you and your family who would suffer the consequences.
 
I don't see how this serves a purpose on these forums, this should be locked. :thumbsdown::thumbsdown:
 
I'm sorry to hear about your wife's ordeal. As you know, your initial reaction is normal but not a good idea for the reasons Sarah and others have stated. I hope the police get the scum who did this to your wife and that you will see justice done.

I hope that Victim Support or a similar organisation have contacted your wife.If not her GP should refer her for counselling. Meanwhile I think it is good for her to talk about her experience and I'm glad that you felt able to talk about it on here.
 
Marcel said:
What the....
Absolutely pathetic. I really hate laying down the law and speaking like a bloody teacher, but if you insist on acting like children.....

Any more bitching like that and I will hit the ban button.

We're supposed to be a friendly forum here that posts with respect towards each other. If you can't post with respect and politeness, then go and find another forum.
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Yeah ok, point taken.

It just really ****es me off that something like this can happen and you just KNOW nothing will happen to the little filths that done it.
Reading the OP really annoyed me, and I felt the OP's anger!!

I shouldn't have lashed out at Craig like I did. It was childish and pathetic, especially when he was being so level headed.
So for that, Craig I offer you my apologies mate.
I just got so wound up by the post that I didn't give it any thought.

I imagined what I'd feel like if my O/H was attacked.
 
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