please, just leave this forcefulness now, this thread is utterly exhausting. The advice is not meant to make all of you happy, it's meant to make ME happy and quite frankly, some of it I have taken, others I have rejected because it's not right for my situation. In between all of that, there is a lot of pressure and patronising hostility that makes me quite uncomfortable (and yes, other people too - I've had multiple messages from people letting me know that they think this is f*****g ridiculous too.)
Just because you want me to take his lights, doesn't mean I have to. It's a great offer but you do realise that I'm still having a look into things and considering other options - I'm not going to take it just because it's free. Sorry if it seems rude but he gave me the option to say no, and I did.
Also, I haven't completely settled on that kit - it was my one suggestion I mentioned once, yet I am still looking at other options the whole time (like I was when I first said about LED - this is a process.) I don't come back here to update you on everything I am looking at because as soon as I mentioned that kit, everything went in all sorts of horrible directions. Realise it was mentioned, not confirmed that I was buying it. Currently I'm looking at 3 different set ups - just putting that there because it seems to me that you all need to be updated 24/7