I recently bought this by George Barr,
"From Camera to Computer: How to Make Fine Photographs Through Examples, Tips, and Techniques", it is not your traditional beginners technical manual. George leads the reader through his thought process preparing, taking and post processing photographs.
Good for all levels from beginners to advanced, also good just to read.
I bought it as an ebook, I can not comment on the image quality in the 3D version.
Another was "Chasing the light", byIbarionex Parello. He talks about making the most of available light. Again lots of stuff for beginner to advanced and a good read.
These are both books about love of photography and making photographs and would be great birthday gifts IMHO...