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my ex decided to rub it in and tell me shes moving in with the guy she cheated with and then left me for... she likes to rub it in about stuff... this has pretty much killed me. i guess its time to go back in my room ditch my camera and drink my self stupid everynight. :( oh well.
 
Sorry to hear that :(

But booze isn't the answer :nono:
 
it was him that convinced her to cheat... im going to get drunk now. im falling back of the wagon and i dont care i had even taken some photos. cant be arsed eciting them now
 
stuff her - move on
hang on to the camera it hasn't let u down
plenty more fish on the beach
(or is that pebbles in the sea):shrug:
 
Im tellin ya mate, you need to stay as sane as possible over the next week or two. i can honestly tell ya that this will all end up being just a bad memory...

and the alcohol only makes this kinda stuff worse....

you need to start a 365 mate...see how your life improves from day to day
 
she left me months back but everyday she rubs it in more and more
 
get her out your life completely mate..change your number if she is ringing you...and if your ringing her you gotta stop
 
im not ringing her. its her and her bf contacting me. its not enuf that i have no friends and no girlfriend that they have to rub my face in it. im trying to not get depressed on here like i was but its hard.
 
here's a thought
actually happened a while back
Eleanor Roosevelt I think

something along the lines of
"people can only make you feel bad if you permit them"

don't let her get to you, step away from it
 
ignore them. don't respond. don't dwell on it. keep telling yourself your friend is welcome to her and her cheating. It will only be a matter of time before she cheats on him.

Ashers, drink yourself stupid for one night only. Cry yourself silly if you need to. But then put it all in the history box and don't look back.

There are so many decent women out there, and one will come along when it's meant to happen. In the meantime just go out and make some new friends. And keep in mind that friendship often leads to romance. I know from experience my ex's have always been my best friend at the time. Someone to not only love, but to have a laugh with, to share some good and bad times, to kick me when i needed a kick (don't even go there BeHappy! :lol:), and to support each other as we faced daily issues.

But most of all, learn to love yourself. Until you do that you can't really love anyone else properly. And you won't do it while you are focused on the pain being caused by 2 people who you really ought to consign to the sewer they appear to live in!
 
Top advice there hepburn :thumbs:
 
im hoping now i will make some friends when i am living in liverpool. a fresh start. i dont know anyone there. so a clean slate
 
dint go on the booze i have been there and i am no married adn on monday is our first year anniversay. It worked out best for me it happened.
it will for you too.
 
hepburn said:
ignore them. don't respond. don't dwell on it. keep telling yourself your friend is welcome to her and her cheating. It will only be a matter of time before she cheats on him.

Ashers, drink yourself stupid for one night only. Cry yourself silly if you need to. But then put it all in the history box and don't look back.

There are so many decent women out there, and one will come along when it's meant to happen. In the meantime just go out and make some new friends. And keep in mind that friendship often leads to romance. I know from experience my ex's have always been my best friend at the time. Someone to not only love, but to have a laugh with, to share some good and bad times, to kick me when i needed a kick (don't even go there BeHappy! :lol:), and to support each other as we faced daily issues.

But most of all, learn to love yourself. Until you do that you can't really love anyone else properly. And you won't do it while you are focused on the pain being caused by 2 people who you really ought to consign to the sewer they appear to live in!
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Well said that man :)

Ashers.. as painful as it is, you gotta move on man. What's the use in dwelling on the past and wallowing in sorrow? It's not going to make you feel any better. Take a deep breath, start thinking positively and live life to the full. You only get one shot at life so why waste it? You'll find the right girl when you least expect to!
A new start is a good thing. It's difficult not having friends as I don't have any where I live so I know where you're coming from on that note.
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Ashers said:
it was him that convinced her to cheat...
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Sounds like you're well rid of her, if you're moving away get a new sim card in your phone and only give the number to friends or just stop answering when you see their number come up, I think you can bar numbers from getting through

If you're going to drink yourself stupid do it in a club, at least beer goggles may induce a result :D
 
wack61 said:
Sounds like you're well rid of her, if you're moving away get a new sim card in your phone and only give the number to friends or just stop answering when you see their number come up, I think you can bar numbers from getting through

If you're going to drink yourself stupid do it in a club, at least beer goggles may induce a result :D
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Good advice and also invest in a Fleshlight ;) great to fallback on ! Good luck with the new start buddy !
 
I'm really sorry to hear that you've had this kick in the teeth Ashers :'( I know it's not much comfort while you're still feeling so raw but things will get better and get better more quickly than you think.

Ditch the booze and grab your camera rather than the other way round ;)
 
thanks guys. beign alone is hard u know. sure i have my family and people say that all the time, but that doesnt make a difference when your lonely. its friendship u sometimes crave and if u dont have it u are alone
 
Ashers, there's some good words here and as you can see, lots of experience too. None which is is going to make the blindest bit of difference to you though is it. :(

Fact is you have a lot of pain to deal with here, and until it's dealt with it's going to be there day and night without stop. Dig deep geez and work up as much stubbornness as you can and just keeping putting one foot in front of the other. The truth is that the past and future will take care of themselves as long as you can keep living and not give up.

One of these days, you'll look up from your feet and find out the darkness has gone and the light is back. Once that day happens, you may still get down but you KNOW it's all going to be OK.
 
I've just noticed where you're living, Blackpool, christ on a bike you're tripping over it, fresh meat every Friday night, get the old spice on and play the field :woot:

do they still make old spice :D
 
wack61 said:
do they still make old spice :D
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My 12-yr-old nephew was just given some by his Grandad! :help:

Mind you, it might be really old Old Spice, the type of pong Henry Cooper would swear by, if he didn't bat for the other side i.e Brut 33, with the ponce with the perm.
 
lol yeah but i hate blackpool girls ask anyone on these forums what blackpool girls are like. it like playing pokemon with std's Catch em catch em gotta catch em all STDs!
 
Ashers said:
lol yeah but i hate blackpool girls ask anyone on these forums what blackpool girls are like. it like playing pokemon with std's Catch em catch em gotta catch em all STDs!
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I married one - although she was a posh B'pool girl - from Bispham :lol:

Met her in the No.3 at Devonshire Square - is that still there, and is it still where everyone goes Friday and Saturday nights before hitting the clubs? Bet Sands nightclub ain't there any more though.
 
sands... where was it? and no.3 is still there *** most people from blackpool go to poulton then back out to blackpool for the clubs. lol posh blackpool girl. being a poultonian i cant possibly comment :P
 
Ashers said:
sands... where was it?
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On the front, under that amusement place (Coral Island?) just along from the tower towards the Pleasure Beach.

And there was a another might club under an hotel (The Majestic?) next to the swimming pool - a pool in a night club :lol:

The No.3 was ahead of its time - had a trendy wine bar in the late '70s :D
 
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Ashers said:
its not enuf that i have no friends
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You can stop that ballcocks for a start!:nono:

What are we then?? Eh? Ok, we might be nerdy toggy computer geeks but surely we count for summit!:lol:


Seriously though, I realise it`s bloody tricky at the moment but life can only get better if you feel like you`re at your lowest.
 
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On the front, under that amusement place (Coral Island?) just along from the tower towards the Pleasure Beach.

And there was a another might club under an hotel (The Majestic?) next to the swimming pool - a pool in a night club :lol:

The No.3 was ahead of its time - had a trendy wine bar in the late '70s :D
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springs is under the hotel and that is still there but only old folk go there. and under coral island hmmm its gone then all there is the pub above it.
 
If she keeps calling you...

...tell her you've just been to the clinic for a 'rash' that you first noticed when you split up. You've had a swab and a blood test and will get the results in 2-3 weeks time.
 
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