Not long home and backing up the images before I head to bed. Thought as I asked for lots of advice on here I'd give a wee review. Day went more or less according to plan, missed getting some shots I wanted but got everything the bride wanted, which is the main thing.
Really blessed with the weather, raining as she arrived at the church, but the day really improved and ended up being nearly too bright, on one group shot I realised I'd blown the dress - but was checked as I went along so realised straight away and just retook.
Thought I'd 'Uncle Bob' sorted, but nope, he totally got in the way of all the walking up the aisle shots, and followed me about everywhere. There were several folk there with DSLRs (though all with kit lens and using pop up flash) and they followed me everywhere. Actually the most difficult part of the day was the bride and groom shots, as I had an audience watching me set up every shot and that made me feel self concious. Need to find a better way of handling that (and I know I should have been prepared for it, but I thought they'd all go inside when all the other guests did - problem was there was nowhere to take the B&G away on my own for those shots and I only had about 15 mins to get them.)
Finally put the cameras down at nearly 11pm, and then spent about an hour on the dance floor, having some fun unwind time with my friends, getting to be a 'guest'.
Really enjoyed it, fantastic first wedding - relaxed couple and having a friend along as an assistant really helped. At times she helped set up the shot and held reflector, flash etc, in the church she was able to get some different angles (eg from balcony while I was downstairs) and she got guest candids at various times of the day and some detail shots.
Being prepared really helped I think. I had a shot list with what equipment I'd be using (and when I wanted my assistant to help me and when I wanted her to second shoot), I had a list of group shots to give to the best man who was great at rounding people up, and I knew what shots the bride wanted and made sure I got all those.
Made mistakes, learnt stuff I'd do differently next time, but really enjoyed it, despite the pressure.
Thanks again for all the advice (in this and a couple of other threads).