..& i'm glad this thread might just have entertained some of you in more ways than one![/B]
The most important day of my life too. I didn't hire a photographer at all. I just asked everyone who brought a camera along to let me pay for a second copy of the film :shrug:
The thing is, it's all well and good politely suggesting that they may regret such a decision later on, but to state they are wrong for *not* hiring a pro is just forcing an opinion onto someone else (not saying you inparticular did, just a general comment). Because at the end of the day, that's all it is..an opinion. Some people place alot of value on the photos, some people place it on other things.
Just like the wedding dress for example. Some brides insist it has to be perfect and cut from top class material. Others would get married in a binbag, but the cake has to be perfect.
No one can, nor should insist the value of importance someone else should place on a particular aspect of their wedding, because not everyone has the same ideals...if we did it would be a very boring world.
That aside, as a result of this thread there has been 2 temporary suspensions, god knows how many posts deleted/hidden, and 1 permanent (but overdue) ban, and what's left is still a healthy discussion.
It proves that we can all have a discussion in which we don't all agree, but still be polite about it....anyone who is rude and insulting is slung out on their egotistical arse.
Dangermouse, if you have a paypal account, let me know the relevant details, and I shall make a donation (admittedly small) towards any costs you may incur.
Cinderella shall go to the ball!
ok then i getting hitched next year and i offering to let everyone come and take pics then we can post them and have a right old barny on who's are best.....only joking i paying my photographer nearly £2,000:bonk:
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As a wedding photographer I can see both sides of this. At the end of the day a wedding is about two people who love each other and want to get married. 50 years ago, a few close family members and a few locals went to the parish church, had tea in the pub, and the happy couple went for a weekend break to Bognor Regis.. Nowadays expectations are different, but the basic premis of the wedding has unchanged. Who says that the current formula for a wedding is right or wrong? Perhaps the weddings back then actually were more meaningful
I am happy to accept a booking for shooting all day - of course thats what I do, its how I make my living. I am also happy to shoot 3 stills from a baptism and charge £40.00. I am a photographer - and I charge a rate to make a living. Just like buying jeans - you can have stackem high sell them cheap, or a exclusive designer product outlook - both models of business are valid
Back in the 50's and 60's you were lucky to get more than 12 shots - that was 11 took at the service and outside, and 1 taken in the evening - all on 1 roll of film. the photographer would have shot 5 or 6 weddings in a day, and worked like a lunatic. You had a 12 page album, in what ever colour the studio had. Now the expectations have changed, and some people want a fashion shoot followed by a designer album.. they also want to spend 1 month in the tropics and have personalised M&M's sprinkled on the tables
What ever wedding a couple wants is up to them. If you choose a designer dress you will pay a designer price. It can be somewhat like that with photography. There isnt anything wrong with charging £200 or £20000 - you charge what you charge, and couples pick you by what you offer.
Through the history of wedidng photography in the UK, barley a decade hasnt gone by where one thing or the other radically changed. so no one can really stand on a box and declare what is right and wrong

Back in the 50's and 60's you were lucky to get more than 12 shots - that was 11 took at the service and outside, and 1 taken in the evening - all on 1 roll of film. the photographer would have shot 5 or 6 weddings in a day, and worked like a lunatic. You had a 12 page album, in what ever colour the studio had. Now the expectations have changed, and some people want a fashion shoot followed by a designer album.. they also want to spend 1 month in the tropics and have personalised M&M's sprinkled on the tables
I was hoping for a few pics inc, but mainly them all loaded onto a cd so we can print off what we like when we like.
The basis of the story is (get your violins out...only joking) we have about £800 budget to get married, have reception & feed people. Unfortunatly I only work part time as I have a 8 month old baby (the government won't pay for me to sit on my bum all day cause i've worked half me short life) so money is a touch tight.
I will keep your offer in mind though Feeb!!!
A baby before marriage, Its Crime in my Country :bonk:
Any way.. Congrats from my side from India.![]()
I have seen plenty of people on here asking for wedding experience, so this would be the ideal opportunity for someone to get some. For a student, or someone looking to learn this could be ideal. There are plenty of Tp'ers who will spend a day taking street photos for nothing, and then hours processing them for their own pleasure. Think if this as a similar kind of thing, but your helping someone out. It would take the pressure off if there were, say, 3 togs prepared to take £50 each for a couple of hours experience, 3 times as likely to get the shots wanted by the B+G and also by the togs. A hobby with a cash benefit........
Then the rest of us Tp'ers can vote on the best shot of the day, just like a street trip.....
I would offer, but having done one, badly, I know there are better people on here.....
And Royston, you make a very valid point and are obviously a top notch tog. I can't agree more with what you are saying. She just wants a favour.
I would be willing to do this for free - if I get 20 quid of the 150 for petrol?

Wow! £20 for petrol for a return trip from London to Rochdale what the hell are you driving?![]()
A baby before marriage, Its Crime in my Country :bonk:
Any way.. Congrats from my side from India.![]()
Wow! £20 for petrol for a return trip from London to Rochdale what the hell are you driving?![]()

how far does this go as beating children and animals is a crime in the uk, this thread is becomeing unbelievable:bang::bang::bang::bang::bang:
Is that not how much it would cost then?I just put it at half a tank of petrol?
If you have a very economical car, you may JUST get there, although you would have to push it back!![]()

nah it's downhill going south!![]()
I see your avatar says "Soon in UK" then you better get used to babies before marriage as it happens a fair bit and most dont have anything against it
As a wedding photographer I can see both sides of this. At the end of the day a wedding is about two people who love each other and want to get married. 50 years ago, a few close family members and a few locals went to the parish church, had tea in the pub, and the happy couple went for a weekend break to Bognor Regis.. Nowadays expectations are different, but the basic premis of the wedding has unchanged. Who says that the current formula for a wedding is right or wrong? Perhaps the weddings back then actually were more meaningful
I am happy to accept a booking for shooting all day - of course thats what I do, its how I make my living. I am also happy to shoot 3 stills from a baptism and charge £40.00. I am a photographer - and I charge a rate to make a living. Just like buying jeans - you can have stackem high sell them cheap, or a exclusive designer product outlook - both models of business are valid
Back in the 50's and 60's you were lucky to get more than 12 shots - that was 11 took at the service and outside, and 1 taken in the evening - all on 1 roll of film. the photographer would have shot 5 or 6 weddings in a day, and worked like a lunatic. You had a 12 page album, in what ever colour the studio had. Now the expectations have changed, and some people want a fashion shoot followed by a designer album.. they also want to spend 1 month in the tropics and have personalised M&M's sprinkled on the tables
What ever wedding a couple wants is up to them. If you choose a designer dress you will pay a designer price. It can be somewhat like that with photography. There isnt anything wrong with charging £200 or £20000 - you charge what you charge, and couples pick you by what you offer.
Through the history of wedidng photography in the UK, barley a decade hasnt gone by where one thing or the other radically changed. so no one can really stand on a box and declare what is right and wrong
My message to the OP
Have a wonderful day, have a meaningfull wedding, and enjoy yourself, and enjoy married life. Do wht you want, and not what you feel you have to do
Hi all!!
Not sure if anyone who has posted on here will read this again as it has been quite a while, but just to let you all know whats going on....
After much much much consideration I did ask DangerMouse if he would help us out, unfortunatly circumstances had changed for him & he was unable to make that date. DM has now been super kind & helped us find someone else to do our photography for october.
I would just like to thnak all those who sent pm's & kind posts....very much appreciated. x