Why on earth should I pay the costs of a company in Rotterdam who doesn't want to put the effort in?
There's a process to learn and implement. That's all.
I'm surprised you're aiming at couriers though. Surely the company supplying the item to be shipped is doing the paperwork (computer work these days?) and ensuring the courier doesn't have any problems. That's what I did.
This may come as a shock to the Europhiles here but most of the world isn't a member of the EC and many, shock horror, don't have a free trade agreement with the EC. How on earth do they manage?
Companies have choices, go the headless chicken route, pretend it's an insurmountable issue for political noise or so that they can stop doing something they really don't want to do (go through export procedures) or bite the bullet and sort it out.
Just on the insurmountable issue option. I did product approvals for years and some companies used incoming EC things like RoHS as an excuse to drop slow moving products they'd wanted to drop for years. I suspect that there's an element of this now with companies just not wanting to go through the process because they think it's not worth it for them.
Anyway. You're right. It's an insurmountable issue and it's all Boris's fault