We did NYC and Washington DC last year - had a blast
https://www.flickr.com/gp/amcuk/cv851M
We also went for a couple of days in 2011 - only took a compact
View from the TotR
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In 2011 we did the Top of the Rock, in 2012 we did the Empire State. If I'm honest I'd do one or the other but not both especially as you're doing the WTC.
It takes a while to get through the queues and security, they're all expensive.
ESB gives you an unobstructed view from midtown down to the financial district, the Rockerfella building isn't much to look at from the ESB.
If you do the ESB then flash the cash and pay the extra to go to the very top - it's glassed in but much quieter than the main viewing gallery.
TotR gives you a view of the ESB and Central Park and it's easier to move around outside to take pictures but it will undoubtably be baltic in November!
To me the ESB is better photographed from below - you get good views as you walk to and from Macy's
Think hard about prebooking the tickets at a specific time - we had prepaid tickets but not times. The first time we wanted to do the TotR it was raining, the top was completely in cloud and it would have been a complete waste of money.
If you want to do Brooklyn Bridge then I'd go on the subway to Brooklyn then walk to the pier with the Brooklyn Ice Cream Factory/Water Street - there's a decent pizza place under the bridge on Water St.
There were a number of wedding photo sessions taking place there when we were there in August, may be not in November?
Take your under the bridge shots and move around to get the Manhattan Bridge. Then walk back over the Brooklyn bridge towards Manhattan - Brooklyn isn't as interesting to walk towards.
Again I'd expect this to be very chilly - don't walk in the cycle lane as they won't slow down!
If you're staying in Midtown I'd recommend Ellen's Stardust Diner - the staff are all musical actors and sing through the meal - no more expensive than anywhere else and a lot of fun.
We took a taxi from Penn station to our hotel in Midtown in 2011 and it was as horrible and expensive as you'd expect. I wouldn't and didn't do it twice.
In 2016 we fly into JFK and took the rail link direct from the terminal - you pay at the other end - then transferred to the Subway for the rest of the journey. Quick, cheap and easy
We bought MTA cards and topped them up at the first interchange - we would have done MUCH better to buy a 7 day pass as we used the subway a fair bit. Given the time of year I would recommend it even more.
I explained this to many, many foreign tourists who were stumped by the machines not taking their cards
"When a credit card is used at an MVM, the MVM will ask you to enter your zip code for verification.
However, if your credit card account has a billing address outside of the United States, you are not subject to the zip code verification requirement.
Instead, type in “99999” when prompted for a zip code.
This will indicate to the MVM that an international credit card is being used, and the regular transaction authorization process will still take place."
http://web.mta.info/metrocard/mvms/index.htm
We used the City Pass C3 which definitely saved us money on what we did.
https://www.citypass.com/new-york-comparison
The Met museum was brilliant and worth every penny.
The Guggenheim was expensive and to be honest I wish we'd walked in, take pictures for nothing in the reception area and then gone on.
Central Park is ridiculously big - we managed to get turned around and lost - twice in two visits!
in 2016 we had decent and not viciously expensive meals in Hell's Kitchen. In 2011 we got robbed by the stupidly expensive steak place in Grand Central Station and another place on 5th Avenue. There is good food - trip advisor is your friend!
Shopping tips -
Bloomingdales and Macy's both give a sizeable discount to foreign tourists - go to the Guest services/Concierge with your passport.
https://www.visitmacysusa.com/visitor-savings-pass
Century 21 - there's one near the WTC. A massive cross over between something like Debenhams here and TK Max. My other half cheerfully spent several hours in here, buying discounted designer clothes.
Watch out as there is no sales tax under $110 but it's 9% after that. For some reason the USA don't like to show you a tax inclusive price so check before you choose!
http://www1.nyc.gov/nyc-resources/service/2389/sales-tax
Have fun - we loved it.