The pain of being dumped...

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Princess said:
3 and a pair of slippers. On a Friday night :(
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There is nothing wrong with a pair of slippers and chilling here,
on a Friday night, with a few cyber friends. :)
 
I really hate people that end a relationship over text. My friend was dumped that way, really upset her obviously. I broke up with my girlfriend a couple weeks ago, and I actually told her face to face - sure, it wasn't that easy, but it was the best, and bizarrely, we're okay talking now, no bitterness there at all.
 
Well I've been watching over this thread but have felt that I should keep my comments to myself, I know it's a public forum and you openly put it on here but I feel some things should be kept private however.....I take my hat off too you girl, you seem to be smiling already and that is great news, things like this can really drag a person down and it would seem (on here anyway) that you are facing it head on, keeping your chin up and most important....your still smiling !!!

Well done you, have a virtual drink on me and keep up the good work !

Ps what was your number again lol
 
Thanks. Smiling on the outside I can do. Inside is s different story :(
 
lawrenceots said:
I really hate people that end a relationship over text..
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could be worse i know someone that was dumped by tweet , plus there was that dweeb who made his entire workforece redundant by facebook message :cuckoo:
 
Times have moved on a bit though. People spend less and less time with actual people in actual rooms and more time with people spread across the world. I can imagine younger people distinguishing less between communication methods so that they don't find them any different or less personal than actual face to face.

I'm still looking for an explanation of moody man syndrome. You can plot moody women with a calendar. Men are just randomly moody for no reason!
 
Princess said:
I would never marry again sorry! Too much to lose I'm afraid!
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Yea, giving half your house to someone who hates your guts isn't my idea of fun either. :lol:

Love and marriage...
 
ZoneV said:
Yea, giving half your house to someone who hates your guts isn't my idea of fun either. :lol:

Love and marriage...
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holler we want prenup, we want prenup
its something you need to have
else when leaves she's gonna leave with half
 
I would be too worried about my pension....oh hang on, not gonna have a pension once the government get their bloody hands on it

HANDS OF OUR PENSIONS !!!














This should put a twist to the thread, lol
 
Men can't blame other people for their moods. You are in control of how you interpret things. Women get narked when there's dirty socks on the floor. They choose to see it as a personal affront rather than just a sock on the floor. It's the symbolism you see. It's different across the species :)
 
yeah but a lot of times men are moody because the female of the species is wittering about socks on the floor, or whatever while they are trying to do something that require concentration , like drinking a can of beer while posting on TP :lol:

another common cause is that the moment the male of the species sits down to rest the female will find 9 or 10 things that 'need' doing - oh the grass will need cutting today , why FFS it'll just grow again :lol:
 
It's true. Us women just forget you men are inferior and can't multi task or keep more than one thought simultaneously :D

Grass annoys me as well. Same as dusting. 4 days and 4 weeks look exactly the same in dustiness so why bother :)
 
srichards said:
It's true. Us women just forget you men are inferior and can't multi task or keep more than one thought simultaneously :D

Grass annoys me as well. Same as dusting. 4 days and 4 weeks look exactly the same in dustiness so why bother :)
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So if it annoys you, get out there and cut it. :lol:
 
srichards said:
It's true. Us women just forget you men are inferior and can't multi task or keep more than one thought simultaneously :D
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thats absolutely not true - men can multitask , I can easily drink tea, eat biscuits, listen to music, post on Tp and think about naked women at the same time.

Or at least i could if i wasnt being nagged to cut the 'king lawn :lol:
 
If you'd just get the jobs done around the house without asking you wouldn't be nagged. Bet you don't have to nag her indoors to make your tea. She just does it :)
 
Why do socks get left on the floor anyway?

Laziness, that's all.

I had one important rule in my house and that was to put the toilet seat down. Mostly it stayed down, but was still sometimes forgotten.
 
srichards said:
If you'd just get the jobs done around the house without asking you wouldn't be nagged. Bet you don't have to nag her indoors to make your tea. She just does it :)
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Along with the washing, looking after the kids...etc!
 
srichards said:
If you'd just get the jobs done around the house without asking you wouldn't be nagged. Bet you don't have to nag her indoors to make your tea. She just does it :)
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Actually I cook most of our meals and do about 50% of the rest of the housework (we don't have kids) - what a lot of women (and some men) don't realise is that nagging doesnt get the job done faster, it just leads to bad feeling

Also houses are supposed to be lived in, they arent supposed to be kept pristine at all times in case the queen drops round for a cup of tea

And the toilet seat thing is the most ridiculous of the lot - you're a big girl if its up and you need it down, put it down , simples - you need it down, we need it up , but you don't hear men moaning that the bloody toilet seats been left down again , do you ? (and i'd bet you'd far rather he puts it up than trys to pee through it and splashes pee all over the seat.)
 
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The toilet seat *and lid* should always be down when you flush, unless the goal is to fill the bathroom with a fine urine spray. Toothbrushes and all, luvly jubbly. :(
 
Depends on your definition of nagging though. Men think being asked to do something twice is nagging.

I always asked once then when it wasn't done I'd get it done myself or get a man in. Then OH got the hump because I'd sorted it. You can't win!

Men do need the seat down now and then. I don't see why putting the whole lid down is such a chore. Besides if is left up the cat drinks out of it. That's why it needs to be down!!
 
Flash In The Pan said:
Fixed that for you :D
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The trouble is, when I am at home, I am the one who cooks, and it seems to be a rule that who ever cooks washes up aswell. Plus all the other 'man' jobs. I am pressed when the weekend I'd over and I am back at work, means I can have a rest.: lol:
 
If the toilet seat is left up, as has been mentioned, when you flush, germs are sprayed everywhere.

Worst still, if one of my cats drinks out of the toilet when it's been bleached, it could die. It seems closing the bathroom door is even harder than putting the seat down!
 
ZoneV said:
Yea, giving half your house to someone who hates your guts isn't my idea of fun either. :lol:

Love and marriage...
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My ex wasn't the great house keeper she thought she was.............

The bitch never kept this one :D

ZoneV said:
The toilet seat *and lid* should always be down when you flush, unless the goal is to fill the bathroom with a fine urine spray. Toothbrushes and all, luvly jubbly. :(
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Its all right for you girls, you only need to lift one lid when caught short,
putting the "top down" meand we have to lift two :D

Oh and toothbrushes should be 6 feet away from the bog,
this stops and spray back. (or so the experts tell us.)
Sorted :thumbs:
 
srichards said:
If you'd just get the jobs done around the house without asking you wouldn't be nagged. Bet you don't have to nag her indoors to make your tea. She just does it :)
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Not having a "her indoors", the only person that makes my tea is me ;)

I've not starved to death yet because I haven't cooked for myself, nor have I died from the toilet seat being up some of the time :naughty:
 
Princess said:
I would never marry again sorry! Too much to lose I'm afraid!
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Owning a home in my own right (well, the building society 'owns' a third or so at this point, but give it 20 year or so ... ), the financial consequences of a failed marriage are a serious concern. I think I still would though if the right person came along - would be a first time for me as the ex and I never married. I refuse to let what she did blight my opinion of every female of the species.
 
If you'd nearly lost your home due to a break up, you'd probably be alot more wary.

I don't think all men are the same, I know there are decent ones out there. I just don't seem to attract those ones :(
 
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