The pain of being dumped...

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...on the one weekend away you've been looking forward to for ages. No explanation, just returning home early on saturday morning, wasting two paid for nights and left alone with all the unpacking to do.

Happy easter....
 
Sorry to hear that Lucy, the only consolation is that he probably wasn't worth it anyway.
 
Sorry to hear that too Lucy - at least you've learnt what he's really like before you're in too deep !
 
Thanks Gramps. I just got used to 'not being single' I guess.
 
Sorry to hear that Lucy, but remember he's the one that has lost out not you.
 
Princess said:
Thanks Gramps. I just got used to 'not being single' I guess.
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Sorry to here that Lucy. How long were you together? Enjoy being single, at least for a while. The right person will come along.:thumbs:
 
Only a few months, but I've stayed single for a long time after a really nasty relationship. Maybe I thought I was ready...and i wasn't. Maybe it wasn't him at all!
 
Sorry to hear the. Not sure if it is much consolation right now but the guy who dumps you on a weekend you have been looking forward to for a long time is not a guy you want in your life anyway.

Yea, it stings now, but you really will be better for it in the long run.
 
Princess said:
Only a few months, but I've stayed single for a long time after a really nasty relationship. Maybe I thought I was ready...and i wasn't. Maybe it wasn't him at all!
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Just remember, men are ****s, I should know.:lol: Keep that in the back of your mind and you'll never be disappointed. There are some reasonably good ones out there though and that's about the best thing I can say. Keep looking.:)
 
Guy sounds like a grade A arse to be honest. Celebrate instead!
 
Im free lol
 
I don't feel much like celebrating!

Snoop..so am I now!! lol At least that made me laugh :)
 
I am sorry to hear that, there are decent blokes out there and he clearly was not in that category!
 
Maybe I thought I was ready...and i wasn't. Maybe it wasn't him at all!
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You know thats Bulls hit, just dont let it get to you too much. Lifes for living and laughing not depressing and dying.

I found out on new years eve 9 years ago what my wife was up to ( sorry ex wife )

Lifes full of turns and twists thats what makes each day a surprise.

Smile and the world smiles back :D
 
awww Lucy sorry to hear this throw your self into your photography you'll be amazed what you create and how good you feel at the end
 
At least there's all this love to be had on TP...people marry all sorts of weird things, I wonder if anyone has tried to marry a forum yet?! :lol:

Tomorrow's a new day and a chance for you to build a better life without him, and perhaps in time with someone new. In the mean time there's us to keep you company :)
 
ah , i am going to ask the question that no one else has....

Reason for being dumped?
 
No reasonable explanation Lynton. Other than he was unhappy. Good enough reason I'd say, just maybe a bit odd from someone who declares their love for you on a regular basis. Empty words now I think.
 
hmm maybe.....

probably not what you want to hear right now, but the logical head says, "move on, deal with it, and better now, than in 10 yrs time....!:hug:
 
Saying i love you can become all too easy without putting meaning into it unfortunately

but doing it on a weekend you've been looking forward to without much explanation, that's pretty low

When you find the guy who's right for you this won't seem so bad
 
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.......just maybe a bit odd from someone who declares their love for you on a regular basis. Empty words now I think.
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That's not neccessarily the case Lucy and I write from personal experience...albeit on the other side of the fence (I was the half making the decision).
You can beat yourself up and hate someone but it's all based on guesswork and assumptions...it won't help you.

Bob
 
Princess said:
No reasonable explanation Lynton. Other than he was unhappy. Good enough reason I'd say, just maybe a bit odd from someone who declares their love for you on a regular basis. Empty words now I think.
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Going to jump in on this topic as I've been on the receiving end of similar - I don't know about you, but for me it really hurt that she didn't even talk to me, just one day announced "I'm leaving" without giving any indication of unhappiness. This after being together for years, buying a home together and so on.

It shows so much lack of respect for the feelings of the other person not to at least talk to them about what's wrong before breaking things off, so I completely understand how you feel.
 
Sorry to hear that. I thought i had the love of my life leave many years ago.

She left me for a divorced bus driver with 2 kids.

Took me ages to work out what he had to offer I didn't. It was a bus and 2 kids:)

Now living and engaged to the true love of my life.

Eat lots of Chocolate(it's now good for you).

Things will get better.
 
Happened to me - every weekend for months, really intense then over with no explanation at all. Was painful at the time - but short lived.

Best thing that ever happened to me, am married to the absolute love of my life with 2 beautiful children.

:) (((((hug)))))
 
jomantha said:
Happened to me - every weekend for months, really intense then over with no explanation at all. Was painful at the time - but short lived.

Best thing that ever happened to me, am married to the absolute love of my life with 2 beautiful children.

:) (((((hug)))))
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Every weekend for months!!! How many men did you get through?;):nuts:
 
Lol - that did make me giggle :)
 
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