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It is difficult when it's a sudden death, I had very similar experience when my Dad died. They say that a sudden death is better for the person as they don't suffer but harder for the people they leave behind as they haven't been able to say goodbye and I agree with that,
My father had multiple heart attacks over a 10year period before he died, and we'd been through it so many times before that when it happened the lack of reaction felt almost wrong. OTOH my FIL came in from the garden, sat down and just died with no warning - it was a big shock, though not as big as this because he was in his 70s.
My thoughts are with your family at this time.










