StewartR
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I'm not being defensive, I genuinely value the feedback that I get as it helps me to improve. It's the wording and nitpicking that does my head in. One of the comments in that thread if you read it starts with something along the lines of 'I would offer critique but for you to apply it you need a basic understanding of photography'.
I am always looking to improve and the feedback that I get through this site is very useful, but it's the wording that draws the line between constructive criticism and demoralising comments.
I think your glass is half empty.
I read that thread. 38 posts is way higher than most photo critique threads get. The way I see it, there were about 10 or 12 contributors who were polite, helpful and constructive; there was one whose critique was a bit terse; and there was one whose post had been removed, which was probably the one you referred to as rude.
Let's stop and think about that for a second. A dozen or so total strangers have freely given up their time in order to help you improve your photography, some of them even going to the lengths of trying out some alternative treatments of the image. Isn't that remarkable? I think it is. But instead of celebrating that, you seem to be focussing on the one person whose response you thought was rude.
Let's face it, in any group of people there is going to be a certain proportion who are rude and/or inarticulate and/or inebriated, and TP is no different. That's life. Report them to moderators, then ignore them and move on.

