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I think the word you are looking for is normal.
No I don't think it is, not by the world's standards today.
I think the word you are looking for is normal.
i think both is bad to be fair (assuming looking for simulated rape media etc online).Yup and rather than be influenced by talk of what a footballer did and served time for (that in itself an influence?) for sexual matters they are more than likely influenced by the porn thats easily accessible on the internet.
Err no. He's paid the very least price the courts could get away.
I suspect the majority of "society" would like to see him still locked up with his nuts in a sling.
We obviously live in different worlds then. My kids could (and have) spend all day long playing video games yet they know the difference between that and real life. I realise some obviously struggle to tell the difference, but if they all thought like that, they'd all be rapists etc. by now.No I don't think it is, not by the world's standards today.
We obviously live in different worlds then. My kids could (and have) spend all day long playing video games yet they know the difference between that and real life. I realise some obviously struggle to tell the difference, but if they all thought like that, they'd all be rapists etc. by now.
We obviously live in different worlds then. My kids could (and have) spend all day long playing video games yet they know the difference between that and real life. I realise some obviously struggle to tell the difference, but if they all thought like that, they'd all be rapists etc. by now.
i think computer games are slightly different, especially the less realistic ones (the more realistic and violent generally have a higher age rating anyway). but how many kids have been hurt etc by replicating stuff theyve seen real life people do on TV? for example i remember a story where a kid was injured quite badly replicating WWF/E (or whatever it's called these days) that they'd been watching.We obviously live in different worlds then. My kids could (and have) spend all day long playing video games yet they know the difference between that and real life. I realise some obviously struggle to tell the difference, but if they all thought like that, they'd all be rapists etc. by now.
You mean juries of course seeing as Bowyer and Gerrard were acquitted by a jury of their peers. Its worth noting a quote from the judge after Gerrard's verdict was announcedIt was Woodgate and Bowyer, and it was a disgraceful verdict IMO
http://www.theguardian.com/uk/2001/dec/16/football.race
There was also the Steve Gerrard incident
http://www.theguardian.com/football/2009/jul/24/steven-gerrard-verdict-affray
It would seem that the courts adopt a different policy regarding "justice" when it comes to court appearances by well known footballers.
Is it legal to not hire someone based on a criminal record? Just asking.
I would hope Sheffield Utd don't allow him to return. I would also hope that the clubs sponsors bring pressure to that end.
Simply if I was sacked from a job as a result of a criminal conviction then I'm sure I'd never get it back.
You're right. But then a road sweeper generally isn't in a position to be looked up to ( no offence to road sweepers ).So, that being the case, what would you do? Crawl off in a corner and die or perhaps think that society was not giving you the opportunity to try and rehabilitate yourself?
Seems to me this argument hinges on the fact that the guy is a footballer (and hence earns top dollar). If he wasn't high profile, nobody would care less. We wouldn't all be in here arguing the toss if he was a road sweeper or such. As I understand it he hasn't got a job yet. We've yet to see the reaction of fans and sponsors if he ever does. They may well make his position untenable, in which case he'll sink into obscurity.
So, that being the case, what would you do? Crawl off in a corner and die or perhaps think that society was not giving you the opportunity to try and rehabilitate yourself?
Seems to me this argument hinges on the fact that the guy is a footballer (and hence earns top dollar). If he wasn't high profile, nobody would care less. We wouldn't all be in here arguing the toss if he was a road sweeper or such. As I understand it he hasn't got a job yet. We've yet to see the reaction of fans and sponsors if he ever does. They may well make his position untenable, in which case he'll sink into obscurity.
You mean juries of course seeing as Bowyer and Gerrard were acquitted by a jury of their peers. Its worth noting a quote from the judge after Gerrard's verdict was announced
"The verdict is a credible verdict on the full facts of this case, and you walk away from this court with your reputation intact."
He clearly didnt feel the verdict a disgrace. Perhaps he was a Liverpool supporter![]()
I don't think it's naive at all to expect ANYONE in the public spotlight to set a good example to younger or future generations (even some adults).So, whilst we're on the subject of naiveté, it's naive to to think that just because a guy has some expertise in kicking a football about he has a god given responsibility to a paragon of virtue to your kids or anybody else's.
If that were the case, then you'd never let your kids listen to pop stars, go to the movies or watch TV.
Well it was the jury who aquitted, not the judge, unless they were directed to a not guilty verdict and acquiesced.
I don't think it's naive at all to expect ANYONE in the public spotlight to set a good example to younger or future generations (even some adults).
Obviously combined with reasonable parenting.
I'm not saying everyone in the public eye should become a rapist, far from it, but they need to be allowed to live, you don't have to like and want to emulate everything about them. I think Marilyn Manson looks a right **** yet I like some of his music.I don't think it's naive at all to expect ANYONE in the public spotlight to set a good example to younger or future generations (even some adults).
Obviously combined with reasonable parenting.
I'm not saying everyone in the public eye should become a rapist, far from it, but they need to be allowed to live, you don't have to like and want to emulate everything about them. I think Marilyn Manson looks a right **** yet I like some of his music.
Which might indicate that juries are not infallible. As Timothy Evans would testify…if he hadn't been hanged.
The jury saw that video as well as other evidence that the prosecution brought to try and convict Gerrard. They took just over an hour to decided that there was insufficent evidence to convict him. That's after hearing all the evidence and arguments in full, not condensed newspaper articles, something neither you or I was party to.Here is the CCTV footage of the attack. There is absolutely no question of this being "self defence". The guy had about five people including SG punch and kick him. The judge was a coward as were Gerrard and his "brave" mates.
I'd let him get on with it. If they want him back and the sponsors and fans stand for it then that's their business, and the rest of us can draw our own conclusions according to our prejudices.
I have no feelings for the guy one way or another, but I know hypocrisy when I smell it.
I believe Ruth was responding to a previous post claiming it was a cowardly judge who acquitted him. And no juries aren't infallable but they're far preferable to kangaroo courts or trial by mediaWhich might indicate that juries are not infallible. As Timothy Evans would testify…if he hadn't been hanged.
I'm not saying that at all. Forget the rape charge, I wasn't referring to that. Pick any celebrity of your liking, what do you like them for? What it was that made them a celebrity in the first place for surely, it is pointless to expect them to be a 100% goody two shoes role model and it is naïve to expect any celebrity to be a role model. They are a sportsperson, actor, or singer nothing more.Has he ever been charged with rape? Let alone found guilty?
I'm not saying that at all. Forget the rape charge, I wasn't referring to that. Pick any celebrity of your liking, what do you like them for? What it was that made them a celebrity in the first place for surely, it is pointless to expect them to be a 100% goody two shoes role model and it is naïve to expect any celebrity to be a role model. They are a sportsperson, actor, or singer nothing more.
Its not hypocritical to think he shouldn't be able to return to that job following a conviction and prison sentence. I'd be very surprised if a street sweeper was able to (or for that matter most other jobs). Thats not prejudice either
I don't think anyone has said otherwise.
no. i dont think he should be in a position where people/children can look up to him as a role model.
I believe Ruth was responding to a previous post claiming it was a cowardly judge who acquitted him. And no juries aren't infallable but they're far preferable to kangaroo courts or trial by media
So, what's YOUR solution Do YOU actually have anything to useful to offer than he should not be allowed to earn a living? Or should he be only allowed to earn a living on YOUR terms?
I thought I'd just state the obvious as you usually do.
I would hope society would complete his rehabilitation. But that's different from his old employers welcoming him to a position where he has influence. Yes that's lots to do with him being a footballer, you'd be naive to think otherwise. However you'd be equally naive to believe footballers at his level have no influence either.
What would you do?
Has he ever been charged with rape? Let alone found guilty?
I thought I'd just state the obvious as you usually do.
No. But this guys been released. He's got to do something, might as well be football.
No. But this guys been released. He's got to do something, might as well be football.
You missed my earlier reply to you then?
Nowhere does it say he can't earn a living. Does it? I don't think I've said that anywhere.
Quite a lot of kids want to be footballers when they grow up. That makes them role models.Since when are footballers role models? They are anything but. So as it stands I couldn't care less
Well of course your previous answer to me was no answer at all. Platitudinous perhaps, but no solution.
You say you didn't say he can't earn a living? Well just what sort of living would you like to see him make? One of your choosing? Who are you, or indeed anyone else to decree what he may or may not do?
Or cleaning the sewers. Both jobs.