I am confused.. how did your wife know nothing innapropriate would pop up on the screen while they where both sat there?.. and dont tell me should could easy close the window...
Having been through this.. I have pre searched then sat down and searched with child...
seriously .. just because mum is sat there doesnt mean nothing bads going to pop up surely
I have not logged in a for a few days now but you are right you cannot guarantee anything when searching, but surely its better to have some one sat there to search, read the links and then decide on a btter judgement that a child on whether to open the link through google or not?
It all depends on what your searching for, an adult searching for educational all, biological things is more likely to get what they are after (if search engine savey) than a child.
Its no different than taking your kid to WH Smiths or the like and getter her her favorite music mag or girly mag for teenagers then you decide to look at the latest photography mags and your child looks up and sees the latest edition of razzler or men only, and having to explain whats in them or why they cannot look at them.
I agree nothings perfect in this world and you cannot protect any child 100% but if you try to do all you can for them and bring them up with an understanding of how to search for things and explain things then I think there is nothing more you can do.
We all know children can access things very easily so it all depends on if you want to hide it from them or be up front and educate them and protect them.
I know there is no right or wrong answer but you can only bring your kids up the way you see fit, some people do this successfully and some just get no where near. I am not perfect but I do try