I think that the issue here is that you are in search of that perfect camera, and that perfect lens which makes the perfect super sharp, detailed and vibrant images all the time, with no effort. You pixel peep ( as do I ).
The d7000 was part there but the hit and miss focussing of the 85 made us both look elsewhere. I also wanted to down size my kit bag. So m43 was the answer for me. And it's part the answer for you too. I almost feel like you felt a better photographer with a dslr because that's what others perceive....
As we've said before, the next step is FF. The cost will be considerable and I bet that you still wouldn't be 100% with it 100% of the time.
The real answer is to stop being so damn self critical ( I know it's tough as I want the best from my snaps ) and actually be pleased with your work. You've got a good eye for a photo, good processing and good knowledge. Remember what got you hooked on this hobby in the first place - enjoy taking pictures and creating memories. If you continue to search for that perfect camera which doesn't exist, you'll end up hating cameras