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Uh oh.

I think one of my best mates (male) has just asked me out. We get on very well but I've never thought of him that way. Ah what to do. Oh my god. What a situation to be in.

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He is just such a good mate that it would be kinda weird :|
 
Take him out, get him drunk, drag him home and hump his brains out.

He'll be an even better mate after that. :D
 
MagicMynx said:
Don't make any rash decisions though. Make sure whatever decision that you make is your decision not one made of influences....of course you could always be FWBs....
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Nah, never been a fan of that situation. Oh my god. The first thing I thought was 'Oh no'. Surely that sums it up.:bang:
 
The things is though,you are mates and you know you get on. Get over the seeing each other naked bit, and your sorted. Surely a better basis for a relationship than one after a drunken snog/ admiration from afar/internet????

Was mates with my other half for a far few years before we got together, be married ten years soon. But then I have known her since I was 13......
 
Hacker said:
Take him out, get him drunk, drag him home and hump his brains out.

He'll be an even better mate after that. :D
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Brilliant:lol::lol::lol:

Ever thought of joining the Diplomatic Corps?:)
 
get him shagged.
 
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It may well work but you'll never be able to go back to being just 'Friends'

When a woman says "I still want you as a friend", they really mean "Get out of my life you moron" ... :lol: :'(

Good luck, just remember we're all waiting for the next episode ...
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squizza said:
Uh oh.

I think one of my best mates (male) has just asked me out. We get on very well but I've never thought of him that way. Ah what to do. Oh my god. What a situation to be in.

:help:
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Not that I speak from previous personal experience of asking a girl I'd been friends with for years out and being turned down, or anything ( :cry: ) but ....

if someone you are already really good friends with has asked you out, chances are he has a massive undeclared crush on you and will be devastated if you say that you "only like him as a friend" or you "don't think of him that way," but will not say so when you turn him down to avoid making you feel any more awkward than you already do. So do be gentle and do consider why you wouldn't want to date someone you already know you get on really well with.
 
well posting here you are going to get every possible answer, repeated several times, in various ways and mixed in with the 'get in there' comments... sorry to sound harsh but I really can't see a thread like this helping you decide.... maybe it will, but ultimately, its still your decision :shrug:
 
Yv said:
to sound harsh but I really can't see a thread like this helping you decide.... maybe it will, but ultimately, its still your decision :shrug:
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Well at least if I can vent my feelings somewhere then maybe the answer will come out.
 
I've lost track of your love life.

What happened to Masterchef?

As for this guy (the mate) yeah why not, go for it............
 
He left where we were working together and I haven't heard anything since.:lol:
 
Take a risk, lifes too bloomin short to sit on the fence. You'll either find love or not.

If you do then great stuff, if you don't you MIGHT lose a friend.

Don't get to my age and look back at a life of regrets like I do. :D
 
Seriously - I once had a female work collegue coming onto me really heavily. She certainly wasn't unattractive and she was great company, but the necessary chemistry for what she was wanting wouldn't have been there in a million years - I just didn't think about her in those terms. Don't ask me why - that's something totally intangible - I just wish I could bottle whatever it is and sell it. :shrug:

In the end I just had to tell her straight over a couple of drinks that it wasn't going to happen. I found it a really difficult thing to do, but it's the only way - this is causing you concern and you just need to be honest with the guy. ;)
 
go on the date and take a laptop so you can ask the good people of TPF to help you with every decision.

shall i have soup as the starter?
shall i go to the toilet?
shall i have red or white wine?
shall i chew?
shall i breathe in, or out?
etc
 
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