Haha, I have the mk1 non vr 18-55 and a VR one. The rotating lens element means I can't use filters (so I haven't bought any yet) and the build is starting to get to me now it's on my D7000.
General use would be the dreaded everyday lens, so kids, out and about holidays etc and also falling back to wide angle for landscapes on the rare occasions I get a chance. The last bit means I want reasonable corner performance at the widest but I can stop down to get that at f8-11 ish. Usable MF is useful here and non-rotating front element is essential.
Essentially I want something to cover wide ish to short tele ish, the 24-70 range or similar should probably do me. f4 will be fine I suspect, VR nice but not essential. The 28-105 is probably not quite wide enough and would mean a 12-24 or something would be needed occasionally but not often enough to justify paying for it.
Another option is an 18-70 lens but these are all pretty old now, but they go for about £90
MPB in EXC+ condition so the price is nice. Though a 24-something stabilised means no need to upgrade for many years to come.