The problem is how to apply enough force to move the tight threads without at the same time producing enough squeezing shape changing force to lock the threads tighter together. The worst are big filter rings which are more easily deformed. What you want is a way of applying circular unscrewing force evenly at all points around the circumference with no sideways squeezing at all. A rubber mat, or even better the stronger and grippier silicone heat proof rubber mats you can get in good kitchenware shops is the solution. Push the stuck filter ring vertically down into the mat and then turn. It's surpringhly easy!