Living with Schizophrenia

100% certain, we use to get on ok and she told us all about her problems, the police know she is as well.

We will try to keep the pressure on, the letter to the mp and a formal complaint to the housing association about the housing officer will be made on Monday.

That is definitely the way to go. Not only will it build support for your situation but may also trigger some assistance for the woman too.

That said, your priority is you and your family!

If you do not get a response from the MP then do go and see him at his surgery. Times and locations are normally Fridays and may be held in different locations every week. At this time Parliament is in Summer Recess so the letter is the best start but again check if your MP has a web site and your local free(paid newspaper.

I have used mine twice and both times it has resulted in being connected to the right people to get things done

Steve
 
100% certain, we use to get on ok and she told us all about her problems, the police know she is as well.

We will try to keep the pressure on, the letter to the mp and a formal complaint to the housing association about the housing officer will be made on Monday.

Ah ok, then there's no telling how dangerous she may be. This incident may not be her worst! You need to do something, but I agree she also should be getting help as it's clear she cannot control it.
 
ive already said, every time, police police police. This is who to call every single time theres an issue, ie smelling her illegal drugs, any time she is doing anything illegal or threatening etc, even just her screaming at you or anyone else as it can result in a breach of the peace.

The other prong is to take some of the advice alluded to already such as your mp, local housing association and anyone else.

Your wife going to the GP about her? his hands are tied, under confidentiality he cannot talk about her case or care, in fact he should not even admit he's her GP!
 
Well the story continues. she was banging on the door at 01:40 this morning, we never bothered getting up to look she'd be back in her flat by the time i'd got to the door. Then again at 3, I heard the letter box go this time so I got up and there was a note through the door. it read "Kathi Chris there's a cab outside and they keep driving slow past your van" I looked out of the window and there was a taxi parked outside the house opposite. Was she just trying to helpful or trying to wind us up, I think the latter I wish I would've got up the first time now.
 
me and my partner were in an almost identical situation going back 5 years ago now. We moved into a council flat above a woman (her boyfriend wasnt living there but was there so often he may as well have been) we learnt about their "story" from neighbours, the police and people who were once friends of theirs. They had lived up in the valleys and with a group of others had attempted to make their own LSD, it went wrong and those who used it ended up with serious mental health issues (dont know exactly what but do know the effect it had on them), fast forward and they moved into the downstairs flat.

Previous tenant to us was disabled and eventually got moved out because of the abuse he had suffered from the BF. We moved in and the very first night there was music blaring at 1am until 7am. Great start, not! We ignored it hoping it was a one off.

It wasnt. Cue 2 years of blaring music, arguements and window smashing at various ungodly hours (always quiet during the day) and the smell of the strongest "cannabis" know to man, at least thats what i think it must have been! Even with all our windows and doors shut and rolled towels blocking the bottom of doors we could still smell it strongly. Police were called on a very regular basis, to the point that they said is it **** again when they saw our number come up. It was usually the BF causing the problems, they'd arrest him but within an hour he'd be back out because the doc at the station would say his mental health issues meant he couldnt be kept in. they stopped arresting him for the breach of peace issues in the end and just did their best to move him on back to his own flat.
Council were more than useless, they would not move them because they were afraid of being accused of insensitivity towards those with mental health issues. Forget the fact that we rarely got a single complete nights sleep for 2 whole years.

After about a year and a half I became pregnant, it still took 6 months for the council to offer us somewhere else to live, even with me complaining that I was being forced to inhale the "fumes" from their cannabis and it could well have been damaging my unborn child! One phone call every day for 5 1/2 months to the housing officer, she began to get someone else to take our calls, so we said if she didnt answer our calls herself and sort this major problem out we would be calling once every hour, one day of that and we were offered a house.
New house was only round the corner but much much quieter, we still saw old neighbours from time to time and were told that the issues were continuing as usual. Last year the woman died (dont know what of) and her BF has gone back to his own flat and seems to be quiet now.

If you want to be moved out call the housing officer EVERY day, it may still take months like it did for us but you have a better chance of a move by being a pain in their backsides because they get fed up of the calls and pull out all the stops then.
 
Cheers Kirsty, my other half has rung the housing officer again today, she wasn't I to take the call and she will ring back within 24 hours. We know its BS so we're writing to the line manager, and area manager to complain.
 
Sums up the way things are... no action taken due to 'human rights' and other such garbage!

It's not a human rights issue, Simon, the woman has a serious mental illness. :bang:
 
The issue that you're facing is that the police probably don't have enough grounds for arrest at the moment - assuming that she hasn't actually physically harmed anyone yet. Yes I know that the shouty behaviour is technically assault, but in the real world.... :)

I'd suggest that one of your better options would be to work with your housing association towards having an Anti-Social Behaviour order put in place. They are fully entitled to apply for one if there are enough grounds in the eyes of a Magistrate. It means documenting every single incident and (as Helen rightly points out) calling the Police whenever a major incident occurs.

I realise that most people think that ASBOs are a pile of poo, but used correctly they can be quite effective. What it means in practice is that breach of an ASBOS is a criminal offence - that gives your local plod a concrete arrestable offence that can then be persued through the courts. A Mags Ct can then look at incarceration or even sectioning if they see fit.

You'll need to get your HA onside to achieve this, but its a practical working option.
 
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