just an update on my lack of common sense family

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my mother and sisters and brother hve disowned me, and blocked my phone number and the net of me, and said they will call the police if i try to contact them in person coz they say i am a voindictive and nasty person. after spending over 100 quid looking for them.. so family arnt worth it... **** thm all. i am bettwer than them. they have bad breeding. i was brought up righ by my adopted parents. so if u think my behaviour is off. deal with it. a nd they dont know what they have lost. they are poor. i will be successful. so i hope that explains my behaviour. if u cant understand it ** no better tha n they are. enoufgh said. thank you for your time. thats more than my famly give me
 
make a note to you all. family is a weakness, and remember u are stronger by urself. u dont ned leeching family at all . u are strogner by urself. u dont need friends or family. they are just things that weigh u down. just a bit of friendly advise
 
Are you upset? Feeling Down? Sick of Life? Call The Samaritans and leave us alone please. :'(

From your profile, "Occupation: student-Bum-", Hmmmm? ;)
 
Ashers said:
make a note to you all. family is a weakness, and remember u are stronger by urself. u dont ned leeching family at all . u are strogner by urself. u dont need friends or family. they are just things that weigh u down. just a bit of friendly advise
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You cant make sweeping statements on families based on your own experiences.

My family are all close, and not leeches. I am stronger because they are there, and i value my friends and family.

The suggestion about the Samaritans may have been made in jest, but if you are feeling as it reads, a call to them may do wonders. :shrug:
 
Enjoy a lonely but short life as a life without family and friends is going to be very boring and usually, sadly short.

I would definately call the Smaritans as it sounds as if you are in need of someone to talk to.
 
Thank you for sharing that.

Enjoy your lonely angst-filled life.

You clearly have "issues" which need to be addressed, I would question the use of an internet forum as the most effective place to do so.

From the tone of your posts I would say that voindictive and nasty (sic) are not far from the mark and would add illiterate, misguided, incoherent and barely comprehensible to the list.

Menefrego!
 
My family are a rock in my life, and I simply wouldn't be without them.
 
Marcel said:
My family are a rock in my life, and I simply wouldn't be without them.
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Same here. Dont tar everyone with the same brush.

And as good as your intentions are, do you really think this is the best place to air your concerns Ashers?
 
My wife means the world to me and she does let me get away with a lot of crap and has never given up on me! i have 2 brother and 2 sisters, i will always love them even when i don't see eye to eye with them.
My parents are the ones that taught me wright from wrong and brought me up to be the person i am today. I will always be greatful for that.

It seems there is more than being told in your case asher.
 
:shrug::shrug:, my family give me strength, they give me love, they give me a sense of well being but most of all they are there through good times and the bad times, god bless and i love them all dearly.
 
It seems to me right now you have a lot of things going wrong in your life just now.You really should find someone to help you deal with this.Letting these things eat away at you isnt helping.Im sure your family still love you but at moment finding it hard to deal with the way you are at moment dont write them off. try find some common ground between you either through someone else or a mediator.But do talk to someone. take care hope it works out.
 
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my mother and sisters and brother hve disowned me, and blocked my phone number and the net of me, and said they will call the police if i try to contact them in person coz they say i am a voindictive and nasty person. after spending over 100 quid looking for them.. so family arnt worth it... **** thm all. i am bettwer than them. they have bad breeding. i was brought up righ by my adopted parents. so if u think my behaviour is off. deal with it. a nd they dont know what they have lost. they are poor. i will be successful. so i hope that explains my behaviour. if u cant understand it ** no better tha n they are. enoufgh said. thank you for your time. thats more than my famly give me
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with an attitude like that i cant say i blame them.

try growing up.:bonk:
 
Ashers, if you have problems in your life and wish to discuss or ask advice in OOF thats one thing, but Ive followed your recent posts and theyve all made quite unpleasant reading.
Please have a thought to how you post on TP, as youre coming off quite offensively, and if you keep this up, you may then find that one of us may act accordingly!
 
My mum's 70. She's suffered from depression for 15 years since my dad walked out on us back in the 80s, then she then went onto having had breast cancer four years ago - but survived that and has been given the all clear.
She's only just popped her head through my hobby room door and asked me if I fancy a cup of tea.
Me mum's the coolest thing in the world and that we still have a good giggle every now and then :) Oh, and I've got a talented sister (like me, she's into art and photography).
 
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hypnotic said:
Only one word explains the way I have perceived you over the last few posts Ash ....

Schizophrenic
You need to talk to someone.
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Thanks Hypnotic saved me the trouble of trying to spell that :thumbs:
Ash, seriously, after reading a few of your recent posts I really think you should seek some help. not just "us" barrack room Doctors.
Its OK to vent off in OOF a lot of us have done it, but
you seem to be hitting an all time low and thats not something that we can
help you with...........................
 
Have read the the OP i assume he is not studying english at college or uni.
In all honesty m8 if you were mine i would probably have disowned you too.
 
Wow, lay off the OP. I understand that he's a bit of an undesirable at times, but he sounds like he's hurting. And unfortunately not all families are well rounded. In-fact, most aren't.

If they think so little of you asher then sod them, you're far better off without them. As painful as that might be to accept.
 
I dont see how everyone else backbiting each other is going to help Ashers.

Theres been some good responses and some bad, so Ashers I hope you can take something useful from your thread, but now its time to lock it down.
 
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