Firstly, forget about photoshop, it's not the right tool to stitch panoramas. Use PTGUi or Hugin or Autopano or any other app based on PanoTools.
Secondly, THE biggest problem with shooting a pano is parallax - i.e. an effect when foreground object is 'moving' against background as you rotate your . The only way to avoid that is rotate camera against lens' nodal point, but you need a special tripod head for that. This effect can be minimized by minimizing horizontal field of view - i.e. not using UWA lens or shooting in portrate mode.
Use manual focus.
Manual exposure is not absolutelly neccesary - good stitching tool can equalize it.