Between Liz & I we have 100-400L, 70-200L, canon 75-300 IS, Tamron55-200, Canon 100mm macro,two kit lenses and the two 50mm lenses. 2 tripods but only the onboard flashes. (Flashgun still on the list of things to get). Could hire a lens if needed.
I have been asked to do two free family weddings now, both times I have refused. I don`t have the skill, kit nor interest to do it justice. So I just say no.