The Raynox should work perfectly well on the lens you have, although many people will recommend using an even longer lens to get greater magnification.
Just make sure that you're using it at the full 55mm zoom for best results.
A couple of things to check :
What aperture are you using? The DoF with the Raynox is very narrow, so you need a relatively high F number to get an acceptable amount of the image in focus.
What's your shutter speed? As Tom said, a low SS might be responsible for some blur.
I find that manual settings are your best option here to get aperture and SS at the right balance. But you really do need good strong light to help you get the right combination.
How are you focusing - manual or autofocus?
The focusing is a little tricky with the Raynox. On the 18-55mm you need the end of the lens to be about 3-4 inches away from your subject.
Like Tom, a lot of people will recommend manual focus and rocking back and fore. However, with the same lens combination and on the 450D I actually prefer autofocus. Manual focus through the viewfinder is nigh on impossible to get sharp and I really don't like LiveView.
But it's a case of practicing to see what suits your own style / equipment.
As an example, this is my first test shot with the Raynox I bought just after Christmas. Lit with off camera flash, and with the 18-55mm lens - F9 / 1/200 ISO 100 / Autofocus. The settings may give you some idea of where to start :shrug:
fly1 by
SarahLee1001, on Flickr
EDIT : Quite a lot have posted while I was typing, so sorry for any duplication.