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AHHHH! So she's kiboshed your latest camera gear purchase then?
 
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Ah, looks like you're about to be binned :|
















Oops, missed a smiley :p
 
Treat em mean....
 
Lawrence, you're 19, get shut of her, don't get tied down and get out there smashing the back doors in of as many lovely ladies as you can.
 
wisemen said:
Lawrence, you're 19, get shut of her, don't get tied down and get out there smashing the back doors in of as many lovely ladies as you can.
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PMSL!!!!

Best chat up line (as used in Wigan)

"Brace youself Pet, I'm coming in dry"
 
Been with my missus 14 years now and we turn 30 this year. Couple of tips:

If you can't communicate, it'll never work.

If you don't give equally, it'll never work.

If games are played, it'll never work.

Dump her and move on mate :)
 
Can I have her for a few days? .... I could lend you some nice lenses in return :D
 
Life's too short mate, if you're not happy with her then it's a simple decision.

wisemen said:
Lawrence, you're 19, get shut of her, don't get tied down and get out there smashing the back doors in of as many lovely ladies as you can.
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Possibly the funniest post I've ever seen!
 
Go and give her one than dump her, just in case you have to go without for a while. ;)
 
good god... what i wouldn't give to be 19 again. I don't think i had a girlfriend for more than about a month back then... i was like a kid in a sweetshop!

get out there man and do some damage
 
Guys are worse than girls. Trust me on that...
 
wisemen said:
don't get tied down and get out there smashing the back doors in of as many lovely ladies as you can.
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I gave that advice to someone on here who's girlfriend was doing his head in, he took it and has spent the last 12 months doing just that :lol:
 
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@ Steve - yes you could but A) I don't use Canon and B) she's a fair bit younger than me, so don't know about that!

@ Harvey I'll give it another go with the communication, send yet another email explaining it all (again)

@ Nigel - hmm its not that often as well - lives a faiiiiir distance away!

@ Photon - yes the beautiful Rhine maiden indeed

@ Leigh & Nick - I don't ever do that type of thing... Perhaps I should start being like that! :lol:

@ Norma Stitz(the only one I remeber! :lol:) Really?! We treat the girls better than they treat us! They're downright evil! *sometimes*

Definitely want to be with her - can't imagine myself with anyone else, just she drives me sooo sooo mad/depressed!
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From the use of my super duper observational skills by reading your past posts, I have picked up that your GF lives in Germany and is around 14 years of age. Trust me, that alone is a big big factor working against you. Sometimes things just don't work out.

And yes, guys can be just as bitchy, if not more bitchy than girls. :help: I just lay low and keep quiet...
 
trencheel303 said:
From the use of my super duper observational skills by reading your past posts, I have picked up that your GF lives in Germany and is around 14 years of age. Trust me, that alone is a big big factor working against you. Sometimes things just don't work out.

And yes, guys can be just as bitchy, if not more bitchy than girls. :help: I just lay low and keep quiet...
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You have good skills...It's quite obvious she lives in Germany, how'd you guess the age? You're a fair bit off, but I'll tell you once I find out your methods! ;)
 
LikeBreathing said:
Yep, you're being far too nice. Stop it! :D
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I did stop being nice (on occasions when its been too much) - I went all shouty and moany - but afterwards I feel like such a SOB I apologise profusely.:shake:
 
lawrenceots said:
I did stop being nice (on occasions when its been too much) - I went all shouty and moany - but afterwards I feel like such a SOB I apologise profusely.:shake:
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Bloody hell man, never, ever, ever, ever apologise. It's like admitting you're wrong.
 
trencheel303 said:
From the use of my super duper observational skills by reading your past posts, I have picked up that your GF lives in Germany and is around 14 years of age.
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Using the same powers of observation, I've deduced similar, but would have put her age a little older than that.

Lawrence,

Much as I'd like to go all feminist on you, I have to agree that 16/17 year old girls can be <re-insert whatever sweary bits were in your first post>

Having spent about 6 months in Germany when I was that sort of age (yes, I was young once) I can also tell you that culturally, girls around that age have a very different approach to relationships than here in the UK.

It was quite common for them to have overseas "boyfriends". But in reality that consisted of not much more than a pen-pal that they might meet up with from time to time.
They wanted the romance of letters (no Email back then) to share with their girlfriends and all the girly gossip about when they were going to meet up with them and plans for the future . . . but these weren't 'real' relationships.

I may be way off the mark here, but you might just have to accept that your perception of the relationship and where it's going might not be quite the same as hers :hug:
 
There's a difference between not giving up and clutching straws! You're in love with her, she makes you mad/depressed and you've only been together 7 months.. And nearly 15 still makes her 14.

My name's not Paul either ;)
 
You're too nice, mate - treat em' mean and keep em' keen.... :bat:
 
I think i'm probably just old (30 on Tuesday!) but 7 months and you should still be in the cloud 9 phase and skipping through fields, etc, etc.

And I'm a massive believer in the real world where a relationship has ups and downs and that getting through them is what builds strength, but if she is making you feel like that then I don't think it's right. Your partner should be the one to support you, be your safe place and who you turn to when life is getting you down.

I know it's just a sentence, but if you've written it truthfully then it could speak volumes. "Its one of those where I think its worth trying my hardest to sort out the problems"

"we" & "our". Otherwise, you're hanging on and maybe she doesn't want to. If she's making you sad/mad/depressed then obviously she is doing something to stimulate it and pull you down. If she's knowingly doing it, she's either vindictive and is exploiting your emotions or she's just young and childish.

This is all just conjecture though based on what I've read here. I don't know what the roots of problem are obviously. If I was Jeremy Kyle, I'd have sat down on my psychological step and got Graham out by now! :lol:
 
I don't know you from Adam and I have no idea of the facts of this 'relationship'- but reading this thread makes it sound like you've been grooming a 14yr old fraulein on the internets?
 
chopchop said:
I don't know you from Adam and I have no idea of the facts of this 'relationship'- but reading this thread makes it sound like you've been grooming a 14yr old fraulein on the internets?
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Definitely not! Won't bore with the details but -

Met on a family trip to Geneva
Got on well, she came over and stayed with us, I went over stayed with her and her parents, (actually stayed for nearly 2 weeks at Christmas) get on very well with parents and brother.

100% not what you are suggesting(or anyone may be thinking)

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m1pui said:
I think i'm probably just old (30 on Tuesday!) but 7 months and you should still be in the cloud 9 phase and skipping through fields, etc, etc.

And I'm a massive believer in the real world where a relationship has ups and downs and that getting through them is what builds strength, but if she is making you feel like that then I don't think it's right. Your partner should be the one to support you, be your safe place and who you turn to when life is getting you down.

I know it's just a sentence, but if you've written it truthfully then it could speak volumes. "Its one of those where I think its worth trying my hardest to sort out the problems"

"we" & "our". Otherwise, you're hanging on and maybe she doesn't want to. If she's making you sad/mad/depressed then obviously she is doing something to stimulate it and pull you down. If she's knowingly doing it, she's either vindictive and is exploiting your emotions or she's just young and childish.

This is all just conjecture though based on what I've read here. I don't know what the roots of problem are obviously. If I was Jeremy Kyle, I'd have sat down on my psychological step and got Graham out by now! :lol:
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Good point. Wrote like that because it's always me that's getting upset/annoyed - she always seems fine, she never(or rarely) raises a problem, or issues)

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19? Better get used to it as it doesn't get any better from here. :suspect: :naughty:

I'm 44 this year. :help: And yes, I've been around the blocks a few times when it came to the fairer sex. While I am "happily single", I am close friends with all my exes these days so it won't most certainly be the end of the world if it does go pear-shaped at your end.
 
Get shot now, jus twait till she turns 18, if shes this bad now as soon as Alcohol and the freedom of driving (if shes into that) take a hold on her the person you know now will be gone forever.
 
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