I am switching to manual mode and my question is this.... When taking a portriat with more than one person can you have two or more focus points? if not where is the best place to focus? so far I have only really been shooting people alone but wondered what you do in these cases
The most popular method is focus-recompose technqiue. Set the camera to centre AF point only, focus on the area you want sharp and lock that by holding half-pressure on the shutter release. Then recompose the picture as you want and shoot. Many folks find it easier to switch AF activation to a button on the back, and deactivate it from the shutter release - so-called back-button AF, see handbook.
But this sounds like a depth of field question. There is only ever one plane of sharpest focus, with a zone of acceptable sharpness both in front and behind the point focused on. This zone is called the depth of field.
DoF varies according to focal length, distance and f/number. Check what you're getting with this on-line DoF calculator
http://www.dofmaster.com/dofjs.html It's not as complicated as it looks - just select your camera from the pull-down menu at the top left, and this selects the parameters appropriate to the size of the sensor. Then input focal length, lens aperture f/number, and the shooting distance, and all the answers appear on the right.
To your specific question, a handy rule of thumb with groups of people is to focus one third in, from front to back - ie a bit in front of the middle person, as there is always a bit less DoF in front of the focused point than there is behind it. However, this varies and the 'one third in' rule doesn't work for everything, most notably distant landscapes.
In practise, lens aperture is the easiest way to control DoF - higher f/numbers give you more of it, eg f/8 or f/11.