A lot is gear limited, I can't afford very good gear
The rest I look at as a lack of talent or skill for failing to spot what sucked at the time I fired the shutter. Sadly I am very pessimistic about most things and especially so when it revolves around my personal skills.
Same here on both counts, first because of my subjects (2 expensive daughters

). The second I am very similar, and I think you might find it's pretty common with this game. For me, it's a hobby (for those of us who dont make money from it) for perfectionists, and it really brings out the worst of my perfectionist side at times which I dont particularly like:shake:
I look back at my eldest daughter (age 4) baby pics and cringe how bad they are on my then G12 asd I was just getting into photography (to be expected, but because they arent 'perfect' in my eyes I get frustrated at myself - silly really). Expect this to get a lot worse as my skills slowly improve
My youngest daughter (10 months) has much nicer baby pics, I'm 4 years on with it, better gear helps a bit (yes it does - if you know how to use it, dont care what anyone says or we'd all be using a P&S), but I know 10 fold about the game than i did before, and how to get the best from the better gear (that's the important bit for me anyway) - only a D90 and sb600, and a couple of OK lenses, but thats fine.
Still not where I want to be but nearly there (happy to just document my daughters lives, dont want to make money from this), most find my pictures the last year very good, but I could pick maybe 10 from 5000 that I'm happy with - quite silly

I'm not a very competitive person, but a perfectionist, fine to an extend, but i'll bin pics at glance that folk would think superb:bonk: It's a perfectionists dream (or nightmare

) photography IMO