If you dare to say that, maybe, just maybe, someone who is suspected of doing something 30 or 40 years ago that was considered to be normal then but which is considered to be totally unacceptable today should be judged by the standard of that time rather than this time, I can virtually guarantee that you will be vilified and will be accused of being exactly the same as the person who is being accused, without evidence, of wrongdoing.
That's what happens on forums.
Garry Edwards said:If you dare to say that, maybe, just maybe, someone who is suspected of doing something 30 or 40 years ago that was considered to be normal then but which is considered to be totally unacceptable today should be judged by the standard of that time rather than this time
I have absolutely no knowledge of why he has been arrested and that's why I'm trying to have a sense of balance / devils advocate about things. I'm not prepared to start casting any kind of judgement against DLT, or anyone else for that matter. I think the press have got this plaything and will have a go at anyone just now.
It's a forum. Different people post different things at much the same time and then make strange assumptions about what someone else actually meant.No - you were talking about groupies in the Jimmy Saville case (Top of the Pops era), when others were referring to his alleged abuse of minors in hospitals...
I judge a man not by what others say about him but from what I see him do
Must admit I'm waiting for the knock on my door, I'm over 50 never married no kids and used to watch Top Of The Pops, so I must be guilty of something.



What I'm on about is not paedophillia. I'm saying that a cheeky slap on the backside of a woman collegue for example, was acceptable behaviour back in the 70's. Nowadays, it's virtually an arrestable offence, if not a sackable one.
As far as I am aware, no one is being accused of raping their wife...So I still wonder what modern legislation is being used retrospectively?
Interestingly, a man couldn't rape his wife, because of the words of the marriage ceremony. "Love honour and obey". In other words assumed consent. I'm not saying it was right, it was however the result of case law, not as I recall legislation. Either way it has nothing at all to do with DLT, Savile or anything else under discussion.
What I'm on about is not paedophillia. I'm saying that a cheeky slap on the backside of a woman collegue for example, was acceptable behaviour back in the 70's. Nowadays, it's virtually an arrestable offence, if not a sackable one.
Nobody has suggested that DLT was a Jimmy Saville character. Yet this is the conclusion drawn by the sudden media hype. I'm sure he probably slapped a few backsides in his time but it was considered ok then, it's not now.:nono:
A voice of reasonTimes were very different in the 70s & 80s. Things went on at my first workplace that would never be acceptable now & "sexual harrassment" was as bad from the women as from the men.
As an apprentice I would have to go to the typing pool regularly & was terrified for my life every time I walked in there!
Another time we were innocently(ish) talking about stockings & suspenders. The next day 2 of the girls in the department happily showed off there suspender tops to me.
Jimmy Saville basically appears to be about as bad as anyone can get but there appears to now be some settling of old scores going on 7 people jumping on the bandwagon. The witch hunt going on at the moment is in danger of diluting the main focus of the initial enquiry which was into a paedophile ring
Another voice of reason.There is a rather strange discussion in this thread about retrospective legislation. This isn't about retrospective legislation, it's actually about retrospective behavioural standards, with some people trying to apply the standards of today to what happened a very long time ago.
men groping women and women groping men in the workplace and elsewhere was considered normal and, even if not "right", at least it wasn't considered to be unacceptable.
If a woman complained to her manager about inappropriate behaviour she would probably be told to grow up and go away. If she persisted, she would be labelled a troublemaker and sacked.
Well, I never saw it coming at allIf they name Terry Wogan next I shall be devestated.
Some people really have no taste whatsoever![]()

Have you seen his syrup recently![]()
No I try to avoid any sightings of him whatsoever![]()
Nikon Man said:What I can't understand is why majority of people have waited 30/40 years to come forward and make complaints. Not saying they are not true but why wait that long?![]()
Quite a lot of them did complain at the time and were either ignored or punished as a result. Others have been fighting for years for justice (eg Steve Meesham) but the mainstream media don't report it.
The bigger question is why do we not get to hear about it until the perpetrators are dead?
srichards said:Because they sue for libel and win (Savile did over Jersey care home visit) even if what they are sue over is actually true!
There's an interesting question about why McAlpine is suing now, when he didn't attempt to sue the Scalleywag magazine or David Icke ten years ago. What happened in the last ten years that makes him now more confident in his legal position? Could it possibly be because some of the potential witnesses have since died (in some cases, in suspicious circumstances) I wonder?
I was caned (a lot) slapped around the head, made to box against older bigger lads, had various classroom items hurled at me and humiliated at school by school staff but never complained about it, just how life was then (1960's)
Certainly never even thought about reporting them to the police then or now, just grew up and forgot about it. Do I have a case? No I really can't be bothered, chasing something that happened to me years ago just seems futile.
I had a wretched home life too but never had a chip on my shoulder about anything when I was a kid, just made me more self reliant.
That's how life was then. We had teachers who weren't fit for purpose - incompetent ones, bullies, people who, today, wouldn't be allowed anywhere near children. I came from a broken home and we rarely had enough to eat, I used to hunt rabbits when I was 7 to put food on the table.
There's a lot of truth in the saying that what doesn't kill you makes you stronger...
I have immense sympathy for people who were genuinely abused (sexually or otherwise) in the dim and distant past, but I can't help wondering why it is that nearly all the complaints about their alleged abusers seem to feature people who have made it in life and who are worth suing. Why do we only hear allegations about wealthy celebrities and never about coal miners and and factory workers?
Garry Edwards said:That's how life was then. We had teachers who weren't fit for purpose - incompetent ones, bullies, people who, today, wouldn't be allowed anywhere near children. I came from a broken home and we rarely had enough to eat, I used to hunt rabbits when I was 7 to put food on the table.
There's a lot of truth in the saying that what doesn't kill you makes you stronger...
I have immense sympathy for people who were genuinely abused (sexually or otherwise) in the dim and distant past, but I can't help wondering why it is that nearly all the complaints about their alleged abusers seem to feature people who have made it in life and who are worth suing. Why do we only hear allegations about wealthy celebrities and never about coal miners and and factory workers?
Musicman said:Well, if the police are involved, any person would be questioned in relation to offences committed under the law in place at the time, since there is a general principle in UK law that it should not be retrospective in its effect.
****$We also have no statute of limitations in the UK.****
I can understand some of the reasons given for this delay, however my brain doesn't get the ones who have sat for two months since the story broke, and then gone to Max Clifford rather than the police.What I can't understand is why majority of people have waited 30/40 years to come forward and make complaints. Not saying they are not true but why wait that long?![]()
The wife's convinced Rolph Harris will be next

DLT now charged. What a complete FARCE this operation Yewtree is.Name the accusers and then see if there are any complaints. That's the problem.![]()