As someone who has hit a cyclist - 100% their fault they didn't pay attention, went through a red light and appeared from behind a van at a junction, proved by the police and civil case to be their fault.
It still made me feel so ****! Could I avoid him, could i of done something etc. In the end I finally accepted in my head that there was nothing I could of done.
As for him,e wore no helmet, no high vis or bright clothing and went through a red light. The end result was his head hitting the ground, ambulance etc. 18 months later he started a civil case claiming he now has epilepsy (I feel sorry for him, but his fault, not mine) and some other minor things and it was my fault. TS was a extremely stressful year and any communication from the cyclists solicitor got me so so angry, it made by blood boil. All of this would of been avoided (without any doubt) by him wearing a helmet.
I now hate cyclists who don't wear helmets or take basic precautionary steps they are taking chances they don't need to take. They are the ones who will be injured and if a majorish injury their life and lives of those around them will be affected. You will also cause major stress and anguish to the person who hit you even if its nit their fault. Wearing a helmet won't always help, but can help so should be worn.
I also hate parents who make their kids wear helmets, but think the same rule doesn't apply to them. I always wear a helmet and have done for 15 years and my kids will also wear helmets. Why take a chance when there is protection out there?