Mother Goose
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Have you ever had to deal with (harsh or not-so-harsh) criticism? Did you deal with it well or not-so-well? In the end, what was the result?
Me rarely and then as only good well meaning advice.
If I may Ill recount something that happened to a young lady just starting out in photography.
She and her Mum were walking around a lake near where I live. They came across a professional tog taking some shots of the local bird life on the lake.
The young girl started taking a few shots of her own. The guy turned to her and told her she should leave as she had no place taking photographs with
such a crap camera and that she was making too much noise.
Mum defended her daughters right to shoot what she wanted and things got a little heated. At that point he stormed off with the passing shot
Im a professional photographer, I know what Im talking about
At the time she had a little 35mm point and shoot and the local kids were feeding the ducks.
A few days later I met them by the lake. We exchanged pleasantries like you do. Then she recounted the story of what happened and that
her daughters enthusiasm for photography had taken one almighty slump. This was the first time since it happened shed been out with her camera.
I explained to her that not all togs are like that and invited her and Mum to tag along for awhile.
The young lady borrowed my back up D80 and we set about filling some memory cards.A very pleasant afternoon followed,
a million questions asked. She was taking shots like a goodun and her enthusiasm restored.
In this day and age its nice that a young person shows an interest in something constructive.
I didnt do anything special, just passed on a little knowledge. As for that total and utter (insert own word(s) here)
his brand of criticism could have destroyed a kids enthusiasm and we could have lost a potentially great photographer.
I know who he is and if i meet him, hell need his professional gear surgically removed.
The upshot is the young lady has enrolled in a couple of photography courses at college and is
sporting a sparkly new D80. Her ambition to be a wildlife photographer All the best to you kid.
, I found this less than helpful and asked the poster for some clarification. To this day I have had none. I'm sure that person knows who they are and are welcome to respond here.I am all for constructive critisism, but I do find some people dont like me answering the critisism. A lot of my best photos (in my opinion) are shots that I have either been to some effort to take or put a lot of work into, and I have reasons for cetain things in the image etc, people may not like these and point them out as a constructive critisism which is fine, but I have noticed if I respond and explain the reasons for these then some people do seem to take that as "not taking critisism well" where as I see it as just explaining my reasoning. It doesnt bug me really, but does make me think sometimes before responding to any critisism of my shots as I dont want to come over badly.
One problem with posting critisism online (ie here) is that it can be easily mis-understood.
I posted something here recently about some self portraits somebody had taken, and am sure it was taken badly, when it wasn't meant that way. Maybe just me being useless with words, but one does need to be careful to avoid unintentional upset.

completely foodpoison!