Cracking point [rant]

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How much **** would you take from your siblings [sister] before you are allowed to crack and just Disone[if its a word] them.

Long story short, my sister is causing endless problems between her and my brother which in turn is causing problems between, her and my mum with repocusions onto my dad and putting stresses on their marrage[mum blames dad, dad blames mum etc...]

To show how stupid this is it all started from my parents loaning my sister some money for a car many years ago and her not paying it back, then when my parents asked for the money she stopped talking to them for months untill they said fine forget it[which is what they was gonna do without her stopping comunication]

Its now excilated to her hating my brother for getting involved in said load etc... & now she is bringing back things he used to do to her/me when we was little. Me personaly everyone i talk to got a fair amount of stick from there older siblings i got my fair share but I have more then made up for it wheni out grew him and could fully lift him up and body slame him [he's 6years older & fatter] but she seems to have this suger coated fantasy from all her friends that they never recieved any tough love when they was younger [bull ****].

So Am i fully in my own rights just cut her out of our family?
 
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Families are never easy. TBH though I would avoid the whole 'begone foul fiend' thing if possible.
Sometimes it's best just to lay your cards on the table and say something like, "Look, I know there's friction between y'all, but leave me out of it please," and let them get on with their feud.
 
Either she grows up and acts like an adult which is fine for everyone concerned, or she doesn't, in which case are you really bothered?

Don't lose sleep over this.
 
Arkady said:
Either she grows up and acts like an adult which is fine for everyone concerned, or she doesn't, in which case are you really bothered?

Don't lose sleep over this.
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+1.

Sounds like someone needs to grow up. If they won't, then don't let it bother you.
 
Well the last straw was the fact she wont Let my mum go in or even to the hospital when her Baby is born. She basicly told her To F off I can understand she doesn't want her there but there are other ways of doing it.

Well I've stopped talking to her and tbh I don't care Saves me some money at christmas :) for more camera equipment :D woop woop.

Anyone want to adopt a Brother I am clean and I can cook :P.
 
She may seem to be behaving really badly at the moment but pregnancy can really completely take over any rationality a woman may have had. Hormones are wild at this time.

Just give her some space to deal with life as she needs to at the moment but if you can, don't shut her out completely.
 
i dont get it.

mom and dad gave your sister a loan.

she doesnt pay it back and throws a strop when asked.

months later parents say forget about it.

brother jumps in and says it is unfair.

she tells mom and dad that he used to pick on her.

is that about it??personally i would let her get on with it, dunno why she is banning her mother from the hospital, but i dont know your family or what they are like.

just leave them to it.
 
I'd leave her be until after the baby is born - between hormones, worry, anxiety and stress who knows what she's really feeling

Hopefully she'll realise what a fool she's been and will sort it out herself
 
Who cares that she's pregnant - it's her job FFS! Tell her to stop being a moody cow and get the dinner on!
 
You choose your friends but you can't choose your family, I wonder how many of us would associate with family members if they were not related to us?
 
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You choose your friends but you can't choose your family, I wonder how many of us would associate with family members if they were not related to us?
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I wouldn't.

Well not speaking to my sister anymore till she grows up, Nore to that matter is my brother or my dad but then thats upto her.


+1 for being able to choose your family.
 
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