BrokenLogic
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About 4 months ago a good friend told me one of her friends was getting married, once here and then also in Europe with her other family too, so she wanted a wedding photographer for the registry office here. My friend was the first choice, although due to lack of confidence in herself and other personal reasons said no and suggested me instead. Then her friend decided that she just wanted guests to take pictures and would have a proper photographer at her other wedding so didn't need me.
Then two weeks before the wedding my good friend rung me up when she was at the airport to go on holiday and said her friend had just called her and said she'd changed her mind and wanted a photographer to take some pictures now and if she could get my details to sort something out.
I got a phone call from the bride to be and we arranged a price (far too low to be honest but never mind). We were supposed to meet up the week before the wedding but I couldn't make it due to two shoots I already had booked so we were going to meet up the day before the wedding so we knew what each other looked like and we could discuss things and I had made a little form/invoice for them to sign. In the end they couldn't make it so I had to walk into the wedding blind as to what they wanted.
Anyway, the day of the wedding came and I arrived at the registry office on time and eventually met with the bride and groom. They hadn't made it clear what I should shoot so I just used it as a practise session. By the end of the wedding I had quite a few photos and was looking forward to editing them (as far as I was aware they just wanted a cd of pictures). Then when it came to paying me I got my money and asked if they were definately sure they didn't want me to make them an album. The reply I got was that my close friend would be editing them and making an album for them so I just needed to give a cd to her too. I'm sorry, what? Someone else is editing my pictures? Well I was a bit taken aback for several reasons. I explained that part of my "package" was to do editing and album but they stood firm that she was going to edit them (she created an album for a mutual friend before which the bride had seen and wanted one too).
Well I walked away very disheartened and annoyed. One, why had my friend agreed to do this when she knew they were my photos? She understands copyright. Two, was she getting paid for it? (yes, she is. She is now making money off of my photos), Three, should i say no? What would happen if I did say no? CAN i say no? My father picked me up from the wedding and through a long talk suggested this time i just give over the photos and be done with it. As long as they make no reference to me anywhere in the album to influence my reputation by the edits. This time I had to learn from it, but I feel very protective over my photos. They aren't brilliant but they are mine and i don't want someone critically scanning through them deciding on their worth to her even though she is my friend. I just really don't know what to do. I've spoken to my close friends boyfriend who is my work collegue and said how much I didn't like the idea and his response was only that the editing had been arranged from before i was asked to take pictures and originally my close friend was going to make an album out of the guests pictures. That makes it okay does it?
What can I do? If I edit them they won't be half as good as my friends and I wouldn't be paid for it, I know that. But at the same time i don't want her making money out of my pictures and editing all the work that I did.

Then two weeks before the wedding my good friend rung me up when she was at the airport to go on holiday and said her friend had just called her and said she'd changed her mind and wanted a photographer to take some pictures now and if she could get my details to sort something out.
I got a phone call from the bride to be and we arranged a price (far too low to be honest but never mind). We were supposed to meet up the week before the wedding but I couldn't make it due to two shoots I already had booked so we were going to meet up the day before the wedding so we knew what each other looked like and we could discuss things and I had made a little form/invoice for them to sign. In the end they couldn't make it so I had to walk into the wedding blind as to what they wanted.
Anyway, the day of the wedding came and I arrived at the registry office on time and eventually met with the bride and groom. They hadn't made it clear what I should shoot so I just used it as a practise session. By the end of the wedding I had quite a few photos and was looking forward to editing them (as far as I was aware they just wanted a cd of pictures). Then when it came to paying me I got my money and asked if they were definately sure they didn't want me to make them an album. The reply I got was that my close friend would be editing them and making an album for them so I just needed to give a cd to her too. I'm sorry, what? Someone else is editing my pictures? Well I was a bit taken aback for several reasons. I explained that part of my "package" was to do editing and album but they stood firm that she was going to edit them (she created an album for a mutual friend before which the bride had seen and wanted one too).
Well I walked away very disheartened and annoyed. One, why had my friend agreed to do this when she knew they were my photos? She understands copyright. Two, was she getting paid for it? (yes, she is. She is now making money off of my photos), Three, should i say no? What would happen if I did say no? CAN i say no? My father picked me up from the wedding and through a long talk suggested this time i just give over the photos and be done with it. As long as they make no reference to me anywhere in the album to influence my reputation by the edits. This time I had to learn from it, but I feel very protective over my photos. They aren't brilliant but they are mine and i don't want someone critically scanning through them deciding on their worth to her even though she is my friend. I just really don't know what to do. I've spoken to my close friends boyfriend who is my work collegue and said how much I didn't like the idea and his response was only that the editing had been arranged from before i was asked to take pictures and originally my close friend was going to make an album out of the guests pictures. That makes it okay does it?
What can I do? If I edit them they won't be half as good as my friends and I wouldn't be paid for it, I know that. But at the same time i don't want her making money out of my pictures and editing all the work that I did.
but the read only suggestion sounds better, im not as deep into photography as alot of the peeps on here but i wouldnt be happy with someone else editing my pics, i n a way they wouldnt be yours.
