Deep sigh (again.)
Worst case scenario with a DSLR is you machine gun all day and sort it all out later.
Best case with a CSC is you get the shot first time just about every time (assuming you have the time

) You pay your money and you make your choice. Personally I'd rather take a few seconds and get the shot I want the first time than take three shots (or more) and spend time on the PC later to sort it all out. I've spent over forty years with this and that camera and on the whole I've never been happier than with CSC's.
These are all things for the OP to think about when making a decision.
And no, you don't know exactly what the DoF or anything else will look like and no amount of experience will get you to the point that you know every combination of focal length, aperture and DoF in every possible light, scenario and camera to subject distance. Kid yourself that you know and you're doing just that. Kidding yourself. You can get to guestimate and maybe you can guestimate pretty well but a CSC pretty much takes the guestimation out of it. For example do you want to nail the shot and get the eye you choose in focus first time at f1.2 with a DSLR? Good luck but you're right, you can always take 50 shots and pick the best later.
I take a lot of pictures of my Mrs and scenery etc and as I'm often with someone else I don't want them to get tooooo bored and I find that just a few seconds with a CSC usually gets me what I want whereas with a DSLR I'd take just as much time with bracketing and / or chimping / deleting / reshooting but probably spend more time on the PC later. Your money, your choice.
I agree with not bothering to reply though to you though as I think you're set in your ways and maybe getting it right first time isn't important to you so I don't really know why I'm wasting your time and mine. Hopefully the OP will gleam something from all this.
Why do these threads always go this way.
OP.
Good luck choosing.