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I am not a troll. All I want is to be happy but no people think im a troll just because im depressed
 
Sam, calm down, yelling and swearing is not helping you. Nobody can give you the answers you seek... It is only you who can make things better and you do need to seek professional help (which I thought you were doing) to control your anger.
 
PhilH04 said:
Sam, calm down, yelling and swearing is not helping you. Nobody can give you the answers you seek... It is only you who can make things better and you do need to seek professional help (which I thought you were doing) to control your anger.
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No mate not anymore. I stopped taking the medication couple of weeks ago, i felt week and i need to be strong. My stepbrother has a flat, a girlfriend has been to UNI and drives and has a job. He doesn't need medication
 
samthefootball said:
No mate not anymore. I stopped taking the medication couple of weeks ago, i felt week and i need to be strong. My stepbrother has a flat, a girlfriend has been to UNI and drives and has a job. He doesn't need medication
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Maybe you should speak to your doctor before stopping your medication? Taking medication doesn’t make you weak.
 
It does because i still haven't got a girlfriend and if i ever do have a girlfriend they would not want to date a guy with medication or if i had kids they won't want their dad to be on medication. My kids would probably be a disappointment though, my stepsiblings kids would be BETTER in everyway
 
samthefootball said:
It does because i still haven't got a girlfriend and if i ever do have a girlfriend they would not want to date a guy with medication or if i had kids they won't want their dad to be on medication. My kids would probably be a disappointment though, my stepsiblings kids would be BETTER in everyway
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My daughter is 8 and has autism. She takes medication every evening and it makes no difference to who she is or who she will be. Millions of people all over the world take medication for hundreds of different reasons and they also have relationships/kids etc. It’s who you are that makes a difference, not what medicine you need to take to help you.
 
See thats what I mean, your daughter has autism. You probably have a stepbrother like me so if she was my daughter then she would always be a disappointment and i would let her know that. I can't beat my stepbrother, everything he has will be better
 
I need to head to bed now, Sam, like I say,stay calm, life can be a bitch I know, don't let it get the better of you.
@everyone Sam is I believe, on the autistic spectrum with anger problems....
 
PhilH04 said:
I need to head to bed now, Sam, like I say,stay calm, life can be a bitch I know, don't let it get the better of you.
@everyone Sam is I believe, on the autistic spectrum with anger problems....
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He has already got the better at me mate
 
samthefootball said:
and your daughter probably can't even wipe her own arse
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I know you’re angry but there’s no need to lash out at others trying to help. My daughter functions exactly the same as any other child her age.

You’re fixated on your step brother and it’s obviously doing you no good. He’s a different person to you and has his own life. If you spend your time comparing yourself to others you’ll never be happy.
 
You gotta take the meds for now for sure.

I'm bipolar and BPD. Stopped me getting in the army and I needed lithium just to be a semi functioning human being. It held me back for years until I turned a corner and realised the only f****r who could sort it was me. It's a hard slog and you most likely don't want a 54 year old like me giving you advice but look at the positives and move on.

First time I've kinda spoke about this.

GC
 
It sounds like someone should join the army or go on a charitable mission to disaster zone or third world county. Someone needs a new attitude, a new outlook on life. Not more material things they will hate, ignore and smash. Jealousy, anger and hate has not made anyone better off so knock it off brother!
 
LongLensPhotography said:
It sounds like someone should join the army or go on a charitable mission to disaster zone or third world county. Someone needs a new attitude, a new outlook on life. Not more material things they will hate, ignore and smash. Jealousy, anger and hate has not made anyone better off so knock it off brother!
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I need a girlfriend thats what i need
 
samthefootball said:
I need a girlfriend thats what i need
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Well this won't get you one, quite the opposite in fact... Girlfriend is not a toy like a camera or game console. They want someone humble, funny, well behaved, reliable and loving. That's what you should be working towards and it will happen before you know it.
 
LongLensPhotography said:
It sounds like someone should join the army or go on a charitable mission to disaster zone or third world county. Someone needs a new attitude, a new outlook on life. Not more material things they will hate, ignore and smash. Jealousy, anger and hate has not made anyone better off so knock it off brother!
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Or maybe someone should get medical help with their issues instead of expecting any kind of help from people like you?

As someone who’s been pulled up many times on this forum for their attitude towards others, it’s interesting to see how you knock someone else.
 
samthefootball said:
Ohhhh fantastic, do it again then :). In fact do it on your right arm
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Whilst difficult, you need to take a breath before responding. While you feel like typing the first thing that comes to you mind, you need to step back and think first.
 
stevelmx5 said:
Whilst difficult, you need to take a breath before responding. While you feel like typing the first thing that comes to you mind, you need to step back and think first.
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Especially when folk are just trying to help you.

GC
 
Well yes I was being sarcastic ealier ,but I really in all honesty don’t think we need people like thi# on a photography forum , I certainly don’t think telling various members to kill themselves is acceptable either , where are the :jaffa: mob when there needed
 
stevelmx5 said:
The guy’s got more issues going on than stamping his feet so there’s no need for the sarcastic post. Considering your outburst the other day calling everyone racist nazi’s because they dared question the actions of Israel, it’s a bit rich you having a go at someone else.
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Yes, there is, OP sounds a bit spoiled, and needs to man up. I'm trying hard to hold back on threads like this, but has to be said
 
samthefootball said:
Go top yourself mate
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OP is NOT autistic, he's a chancer is what he is. I've worked with Autistic teens, I am in fact a trained social care worker, this guy is not showing any signs of someone on the spectrum. He is a jumped up spoiled teen who needs to grow some and have a bit of respect. This thread should be closed.
 
Cagey75 said:
OP is NOT autistic, he's a chancer is what he is. I've worked with Autistic teens, I am in fact a trained social care worker, this guy is not showing any signs of someone on the spectrum. He is a jumped up spoiled teen who needs to grow some and have a bit of respect. This thread should be closed.
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Do you really think the way this guy posts is just because he’s a “spoiled chancer”? There are enough trolls on this forum and others to tell the difference, and suggesting he “grows some” and “man’s up” isn’t really a helpful statement, especially considering you’re a social worker?
 
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the black fox said:
Well yes I was being sarcastic ealier ,but I really in all honesty don’t think we need people like thi# on a photography forum , I certainly don’t think telling various members to kill themselves is acceptable either , where are the :jaffa: mob when there needed
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I agree that his outbursts aren’t called for but he’s also being berated by other posters on here that should wind their necks in rather than circle the guy and throw rocks.

As for who you think should be on this forum, at least the OP here has apologised for his outburst. I haven’t seen your apology yet for the other thread, or Mod intervention?
 
Wouldn't the OP be better off posting on a forum for fellow sufferers.
That way outbursts would be understood, he does seem a very troubled individual whatever condition he may have
 
Hi Sam, I'm an infrequent poster on here but just wanted to take the time to say hi. It sounds like you're having a hard time but I'd say stick with it, follow your Dr's advice and try to concentrate on yourself and what you can achieve rather than on your siblings.

I'm friends with a young autistic man called Robert. He has Asperger's syndrome. Like you his life isn't easy and he hasn't yet managed to get his dream job of fireman. However he is positive and he keeps working hard to try to get there. He does have a job though (at a supermarket) and he has a car.

What I'm trying to say here is that there are other people out there with autism who are able to get a job and a car and whatever else they want when they work hard for it. If that is what you want as well then I'm sure that you could acheive it too!

Speaking from my own personal experience it feels good to work hard for something and to earn it for yourself. It's a good way to learn to be proud of yourself and to respect yourself rather than worrying about other people.

I hope that you're having a better day today Sam [emoji846]

All the best, Mat.
 
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